Rose, how bloody lovely that must be for you, and also for dd. Superb that she has found 'her place'. BTW, I am also enjoying my Fatface student discount
. Not least because I now once again have a Fatarse and have had to buy new trews and their vanity sizing is most cheering. 
MI, I am sorry you are feeling crushed and discouraged. Hope you can find the energy to do what you feel you need to do. Am sure that in your position, I would probably stick it in a metaphorical drawer for a while, but I have to admit I also completely understand why you don't want to do that.
Yesterday, I had a haircut (oooh short, but still mad), a smear test, my eyelashes and eyebrows dyed, and also went to the dentist and the chiropracter. And got the all-clear from last week's mammogram. Busy.
Today, I have been mainly writing my mammoth report. Still not finished, but the end is in sight. (only approx 8000 words, who is going to want to read it? Bloody gold standard guidelines are a bit daft.)
Dd and ds have been getting on really well for the first time in years. She has been playing footie with him and taking him out places in her car. She took him to Weymuff today and took him out for lunch at one of our fave cafes (I provided some dosh) and then they went for a walk in the beach and had a play in the naff arcades. He came home with a teddy, which he is very pleased with and has inadvertently named after my df. Aww. In every way.