Hello catching up with links and news on thread
Love the dress dry but not one to dispense advice on shoes as I don't wear anything above 2 or 3" due to wide feet but think black would suit dress
I very nearly travelled to work meetings in Brussels this week and then my diary got filled up but colleague that did go stuck there as he couldn't get flight back to UK, just dreadful the multinational I work for has offices close to airport, 5 people who work for our company were at airport when it happened and one was slightly injured...just awful have been messaging with people over there all day and words cannot express shock...as a frequent EU traveller makes me shudder and will try and put out of mind 
karcheer my MIL passed away last November and very sorry for you I know what you and DH must be feeling right now 
On fashion front waiting for uniglo order including Ines navy blazer which will probably not suit and go straight back but I let you know on quality if you're interested
Also ordered a new leather bag from a company called Knomo which looked super organised for work but hugely disappointed, good quality leather, good size, nice deep tan leather, useful pockets and laptop section but in the end I don't love it and was "meh" about it so I will have to return. The search continues for a new work bag that will hold my laptop and all the other rubbish I carry when travelling...
On work/life balance I could tell you sooo much having brought up to lovely DS and Always working, have done it all from role swapping with DH when I got expat transfer and boys only 3 & 6, to working p\t to full on full time and we've survived it all. Key is housework and garden help. I grew up in another time, another country and with live in servants at home (I know it sounds awful but that's what they were sorry to tell you) and so no hangups, but whenever family visit me they all feel sorry for me having only part time help here. Whereas like you I feel extremely lucky to be able to afford it so its all relative. Finally DH and I are and have always been hands on and very equal in sharing domestic and childcare duties, regardless of who happens to earn the higher salary at the time
Love your chats!