I don't like them and agree they can look fashion victim-y if they don't fit your style. I want to say it's ok to not buy every single 'it' item to some bloggers! Even Kat's ones only look ok because of the print. It's just a need for novelty after years of Converse, then wedge trainers and the ubiquitous New Balance.
I prefer flat espadrilles, of which there are plenty around this year. Comfy, flat, summery and narrower and more feminine than skater shoes. I got some fab bubblegum pink ones with Hawaian tree print from Pull and Bear with a decent rubber sole. I'm not doing boyfriend jeans either. Brogues are a yes here though