ahhhh (((marsha))) of course it's ok! you can tell us anything, you know that. and it sounds like EXACTLY the right decision, your post resonated so strongly with me. have been there, not fun! getting out quick is the best way. xx
linus I absolutely LOVE that top, saw it instore on sat and was v tempted. would I be able to wear it slouchy style do you think? or would it look stupid? I'm an 8 really. such a kind offer to pass it on. x
amber I would NEVER have picked you as PJ wearer, lol. you are so super cool!
I adore pjs but don't sleep in them. i change into them as early as poss, has been close to 4pm in the winter months when it's raining. DH finds it hilarious. my faves: white company, juicy, lulu for bottoms with soft cotton tops - often demoted from daywear once they loose shape or develop holes.
I bought an american vintage grey tunic just after DS was born, wore it for a year as daywear and another as nightwear until it was more holes than tee. i threw it in the bin and DD rescued it, saying she LOVED it and named it Toppy (wtf?). so in reception they do a 'Me Box' - take it in turns to take home, fill with special things and do a show and tell. what went in the bloody me box? that's right, my ancient holey tshirt which she then proceeded to show to her whole class 
current elliott cargos are staying. bet that was a shock ! DH loved them, he said they were perfectly me
. wore them on SR with cobalt tee, silver havs, grey R&B biker. felt brill - shop you are so right about well cut basics.
my wardrobe is the best it's ever been and it's making me so so so happy
THANK YOU lovely voguettes. helping me make great decisions. you are all rocking cool. xx