Happy birthday MIM hope you have a lovely day 
Good idea bloss, dh and I had a spat this morning I find the week before Christmas beyond stressful, especially as dc always seem to be ill and disrupt my shopping schedule! Poor dd and ds2 are lying on sofas with cold flennels on their brows. I am listening to 'O Holy Night' scoffing warm mince pies and cream 
Thanks for the wise words about dd. I keep reminding her of various friends who don't get along with their sisters, but in a way I'm glad that she still has a rose-tinted view of the world where everyone loves everyone else. Long may that last! I suppose we've all got to accept that life dosen't always turn out the way you want, but I'm a firm believer in making the most of what you have got. I would love to have a sister myself, and have always had a niggling regret that dd doesn't have one so maybe that's why we're both getting so worked up about it. I really love the penpals idea, thanks to Emo,Annie and NY, and Ollie for the idea. A&W the next generation 
Actually, I was having a browse of the ASOS sale (staying resolutely away from NAP!) and they sell Ally Cappelino there. When I was about 11 I saw a red Ally C dress in one of my mums magazines and became fixated on it. it was slightly drop waisted with a white peter pan collar. This would have been around 1980 ( I am cringing at the thought that some of you weren't even born then!). After many phone calls, we tracked one down and it was brought home from London by a friend of a friend. I still have it somewhere. Actaully it'd be pretty much on trend given all the peter pan collars around ATM. Oh God, when you get to my age all the trends just keep coming around again and again 
I have a bit of a thing for fitted blazers right now, I like this reduced Whistles one, nice dress, pretty blouse
I can't justify the whistles as it's too similar to my GD one and I also have this Z&V one upstairs for dh to give me for Christmas.
Enough waffle from me, the kitchen is a state. What I would really like for Christmas is a self cleaning kitchen. Surely with advances in technology that is not too much to ask for?