Holiday Costs - aibu?

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noglow · 23/07/2023 10:19

Relevant info:
DH has 2 kids from previous relationship - teens
We have 1 shared DC
I am higher earner (is that relevant? Not sure it is really).
Attraction entry fees are not minor - it will cost us about £40-60 and we might do more than one in a day.

We are off on holiday - horray!

I've paid for half the room costs (2).

DH is saying we should just get family tickets to attractions and split all the food and attraction costs 50/50.

I'm saying no hang on. We should be splitting it so I'm paying for me and half of shared DC and he's paying for him and 2.5 kids.

Aibu?

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HeckyPeck · 25/07/2023 13:28

halfthesun · 25/07/2023 09:36

I married my DH on Saturday. He earns significantly more than me. I can't imagine having a discussion over this. We have four children between us. A fair % of our salaries go into a shared account which we spend on bills and children.

It sounds like you've already had the discussion about what a fair split is and that's all OP is trying to do 🤷

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noglow · 25/07/2023 16:10

HeckyPeck · 25/07/2023 13:28

It sounds like you've already had the discussion about what a fair split is and that's all OP is trying to do 🤷

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