Right then need to vent somewhere where I won't get my head bitten off (or risking a shit weekend full of sulking DH) for doing so. Have no energy to go into back ground so please read my other threads for thatcan of worms.
SIL is having her long awaited baby today and DSD's issues have still not been dealt with. SIL is worried that DSD will hate the baby and is stressing, they and DH have put it off and put it off and now its too late to deal with stuff before bubs arrives because well basically it's here! Soooo many issues..I just know that this is going to really cause probs for S/BIL and they deserve to enjoy theior new baby. They are going to end up having the same feelings towards DSD that I wanted to avoid her having by comingto live with us. Very stressed about this....very excited about baby coming none the less.