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MNHQ, a word in your shell-like please - about these pro-BNP threads... consider this a petition

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TheLadyOfTheGreenKirtle · 12/05/2010 13:46

hasn't this gone far enough? these threads are being allowed to stand which considering the "policies" of the BNP and the views expressed by "activists" is appalling. yes, free speech is wonderful, but some of these threads can be seen as inciting racial hatred, there are many, many, disablist, homophobic, racist remarks made and implied and they always go the same way. the threads are started to cause a bunfight. the BNP will not get anymore supporters on here, so why be deliberately controversial?

mn is a self-moderated site. this is great and one of the reasons i use it. however, the mners are now moderating and saying that we have had enough. we have complained a LOT about this type of thing - please take note!

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Lulumaam · 16/05/2010 09:15

i never really made teh connection until now really, between those wind up threads and her entire M.O in MN ,whn you see it in front of you, it is impossible to give the benefit of the doubt . she has been trolling since day 1

BoysAreLikeDogs · 16/05/2010 09:25

O M G

There it is in black and white

trolling, plain and simple

well well well

daftpunk · 16/05/2010 09:29

OK...I've had enough of this.

I have never denied I was Talulasmum, that info was even on my DP profile for months. Loads of people on here know it. I can't see what it has to do with anything? I was still being called TM up until about a yr ago. This has now become an almost out of control attack on me, and there are a few people who really need to take a step back and let this lie. The personal attacks on me are becoming quite frightening and I will respond. If I took the time to trace back certain individuals and everything they have said to me, all the personal insults, the attacks directed purely at me, I could come up with enough to make them look pretty awful. I wont do that.

This has to stop.

TheLadyOfTheGreenKirtle · 16/05/2010 09:34

agreed, i remember that thread and thinking straight off "troll" have to wonder why she stuck around if not to cause trouble.

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daftpunk · 16/05/2010 09:38

From now on, I will be reporting any personal attack on me, and bringing up threads from almost 3 yrs ago, and linking them on here purely to attack me is totally out of order.

CDN....I've never heard of you...what is your usual name..?

BoysAreLikeDogs · 16/05/2010 09:39

You are a troll DP and will henceforth be treated as one by MNers

HTH

daftpunk · 16/05/2010 09:45

That's hardly news is it, I am just sick of people thinking they can say anything they damn well like to me. The persoanal attacks are getting worse, and if I took the time to report all of them I'd never get off MN. Personal attacks are not allowed, so why are people doing it ? over and over again ?

& IIRC the "MCB" thread ended up quite funny...

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Lulumaam · 16/05/2010 09:51

doesn't really present you in a terribly edifying light DP.. you started trolling and you are still trolling, although in a far more despicable manner now.. you started out being rude and then bandying aroudn apologies..and then carried on being rude.

plus ca change

I hvae not called for you to be banned based on the BNP threads, abhorrent as they are. but seeing that you started off trolling, deliberately causing trouble and have carried on doing so in a worse and worse manner..

why stay here when you feel so aggrieved about how you > have been and are being treated.. you started off on the attack and don't like it when you are on the receiving end

daftpunk · 16/05/2010 09:55

I can take it...I have never denied I was TM...why the hell would I ? jesus christ, I started a thread saying people were boring..

Hardly asking us all to commit mass suicide was it?

I do want to get along, which is exactly why I said I would take a step back for a while, but there has to be some sort of meeting in the middle...if people keep this going, (and one or two seem determined), it will never end...

Oh, & Good luck to you too.

TheLadyOfTheGreenKirtle · 16/05/2010 09:57

exactly, my mother taught me to treat others as i would be treated myself, never say anything unless you are prepared to hear it back and you have proven that you are more than happy to give it, but unable to accept it. its not nice to be on the recieving end is it?

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Lulumaam · 16/05/2010 10:01

but it is totally indicative of your attitude towards people who don't fit your parochial view of what is accpetable/ normal

starts of calling us middle class bores then progresses into homophobia...

you joined a forum and started immeditaely to post to rile people and never really stopped

2shoes · 16/05/2010 10:07

i think it is a shame that this thread has now made trolls the victims.
hopefully now the election is over the BNP supporters will crawl back under thier stones(or bridges)

AndieWalsh · 16/05/2010 10:10

Will MNHQ ban me if I just shout FUCK OFF repeatedly at DP until she leaves? i really am quite sick of this 'debate'.

ConDemNation · 16/05/2010 11:50

Sorry chaps, was at football so missed the latest.

DP....if you are right that your previous name has always been in the public domain, then how does my linking two threads on which you appear a personal attack? I just don't get it. I searched your name thinking I would find ordinary, boring posts about nonsense but was quite shocked to see the way you started off on here.

Saying that what you do is wicked, is not an attack on your person or character. It is an attack on your actions.

But report away, and honestly I don't wish you to feel bad. I really don't, I know how upsetting it can be to get flamed on here, I've been through it.

What I would like is for yout o quit posting like a spoilt child, and start taking some social responsibility on this forum. You appearto show no intention of doing this despite several empty promises through the years, and therefore I don't understand how we can come to any kind of compromise.

you've upset so many people, yet refuse to take responsibility for it. I don't like the thought of upsetting you. I hate that, I feel very uncomfortable with it. But linking to some threads from 3 years ago isn't attacking you, it is just reminding people of how you behaved in the early days, in case they thought your recent stuff was just a blip. They could easily have found it themselves. And the words that are there, which seem so strongly to condemn your entire ethos for being here, are nobodys but your own.

I'm so sorry. I wish someone else could have posted the links instead. I don't need it this weekend.

BoysAreLikeDogs · 16/05/2010 11:51

Con I am sorry you are having a bad weekend matey

ConDemNation · 16/05/2010 11:55

Thanks Boys it's not too awful, just loads of stuff at once iykwim.!

BoysAreLikeDogs · 16/05/2010 11:59

Ah, then Keep Buggering On (TM Churchill)

ThatVikRinA22 · 16/05/2010 12:22

this is on Site stuff so where is HQ?

this is about the 4th thread ive seen that baits ONE poster. if you dont like her views ignore them, but imo the baiting and insults to DP on these threads are worse than the stuff she says by a long mile.

its like lord of the bloody flies in here sometimes. people need to get a grip - how is hounding one poster off the site going to change her opinions? people are not stupid - they can make up their own mind about what DP says - but i think the way she is spoken about is pretty vile and doesnt show mumsnet in a good light at all.

so its agree with the masses or be hounded off?

you need to practice what you preach.

i DO NOT agree with her in any way shape or form but this is just fucking plain nasty.

come HQ, where are you in this?

daftpunk · 16/05/2010 12:28

CDN;

I am not going to report you, I haven't reported anyone on this thread. I hate reporting people, I feel like a complete grass and that makes me feel sick. I have only ever reported a few posts, 2 because they were so bad I just couldn't have them left on MN, and I reported 4 posts from namechangers (about 3 weeks ago) who had n/c to attack me, I wouldn't have bothered, but they were insane tbh, and kept linking me pitures of dolls with pink hair....quite worrying really....have the balls to attack me in your own name, I'll have more respect for you.

I'm not overly bothered about being "outed" as TM, it wasn't a secret, people look back on the MCB threads and laugh more than anything... they were hardly mega controversial....all the same, I didn't really want them linked on here....but let's forget about it.

I've been told things off board by a few M'netters they deffo wouldn't want posted on here. I know someone on MN who had to namechange,...I would never "out" her...even though those past loyalties have been tested to the limit. Anything that I have been told off MN will stay off MN, no matter how those people treat me now. If I was a troll I wouldn't give a toss would I.

I'm sorry if you are having a bad day. Maybe something good will come out of all this and we can learn from it... learn how to move on, how to understand each other, & how to try and get on with each other a bit better..

ConDemNation · 16/05/2010 13:06

Thanks, Daftpunk. I appreciate your good wishes and hope you accept mine.

The name is mine...I changed it a while ago, during the post election fallout and I haven't changed it in order to attack you or comment on you or any of that. This is my name at the moment and it was changed because of other stuff. So please take my comments as genuine; I have no wish to reveal whom I used to be, as it isn't widely known.

Vicar, I can see what you are saying...MNHQ have said they want to have a proper discussion about this issue when everyone there is around, tomorrow. I think that sounds OK.

daftpunk · 16/05/2010 13:25

You know I accept your good wishes

Hope your day gets better

x

Greensleeves · 16/05/2010 13:26

still merrily breaking your word dp

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