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Why so much hate on MN?

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Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 18:44

@MNHQ
Why so much hate on MN?
Posters hiding behind complaints about the government, presenting themselves as reasonable actors, to push hate about asylum seekers, people with disabilities, benefit claimants..Mostly the same names all day everyday.
I am told to report - MN just not interested.
I am told to hide the thread..
Why isn't moderation better?
I know this will always exist and exists on other platforms but MN makes no effort to even try to anything about it.
You can't really sell MN as a caring, supportive site with all this stuff offered on a daily basis in active.

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MadellineBellPictureMeGoneNS · 21/09/2026 20:59

Viviennemary · 21/09/2026 20:54

Exactly The rise of the far right is because the main parties are ignoring the concerns of people. So they are turning elsewhere for solutions. Of course they might not get solutions or the solutions might be worse than the problems.

The extreme fat right have always preyed on people's fears along with they're to blame for xyz.
Only now that message reaches a wider audience than 30 + years ago with stickers,newspaper sales,po box numbers.
Obviously online reaches more people
But the message is always the same .

FannybygaslightinGovan · 21/09/2026 20:59

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LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:00

People wanting the site to revolve around their views than be open to everyone. Anyone who doesn't conform is a troll zzzz.

BunfightBetty · 21/09/2026 21:03

MyKindHiker · 21/09/2026 20:58

Have you read 'This is Not Propeganda'? It's a really interesting book about bots and trolls and misinformation. The writer went out and visited literal offices full of people who are 'trolls for hire' - a lot of them sponsored by various governments or political parties to support their views (the one the writer visited was paid for by the Kremlin). These professional trolls are paid to go on well trafficked sites and spread certain perspectives and views which are in the interests of those paying.

I am absolutely certain a number will be active on this site as one of the most well trafficked sites in the UK. I've noticed similar patterns to a lot of these posts. It wouldn't surprise me one iota if Mr Farage (for example) spent a bit of Reform's recent £74m windfall employing a few trolls of his own and this is just the type of site they'd be able to make a lot of impact. Post repeatedly with different usernames filling whole threads with posts seemingly from different people but all amounting to the same thing. Make regular people active on the site think these are 'normal' views everyone else holds.

I pointed this out on a thread earlier and MY post was removed as apparently troll hunting isn't allowed? Beggars belief really.

What's your view mumsnet HQ?

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There are without doubt posters on here who are pushing certain agendas for certain foreign powers/interests. They tend to increase in number and intensity around events like the run up to elections, Brexit, etc, but they are always here trying to nudge the Overton window in a direction that suits other countries' agendas.

Some of them are very easy to spot and are quite amateurish in their language usage, for example. Others, I expect, are far more sophisticated and fly under the radar. I'm not sure what can be done about it, other than users reading posts with a certain degree of scepticism and ensuring they take in a wide variety of views, not just those that chime with their own pre-conceived views.

Lonelycrab · 21/09/2026 21:06

It’s just, unfortunately, the nature of SM in general, which has trickled through to life in general too really imo, as SM plays an increasing role in our opinions and day to day lives.

I try to steer away from highly polarised discussions wherever possible. I’m not always successful, but it’s a sad fact of modern life it seems.

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:06

BunfightBetty · 21/09/2026 21:03

There are without doubt posters on here who are pushing certain agendas for certain foreign powers/interests. They tend to increase in number and intensity around events like the run up to elections, Brexit, etc, but they are always here trying to nudge the Overton window in a direction that suits other countries' agendas.

Some of them are very easy to spot and are quite amateurish in their language usage, for example. Others, I expect, are far more sophisticated and fly under the radar. I'm not sure what can be done about it, other than users reading posts with a certain degree of scepticism and ensuring they take in a wide variety of views, not just those that chime with their own pre-conceived views.

I tend to make a mental note of those who ignore it when data sources or evidence is posted and then double down on their message. That tells me they are not posting in good faith. And there are sadly a lot like that.

placemats · 21/09/2026 21:07

FKAT · 21/09/2026 20:10

Women have to spend 99% of the day smiling and being kind and letting things go and performing good femininity. It's good to have a board to vent our spleen and unleash our most uncharitable thoughts.

Wow. That's one heck of a curve ball.

Oh wait, you're being sarcastic.

BugJuice · 21/09/2026 21:09

FKAT · 21/09/2026 20:10

Women have to spend 99% of the day smiling and being kind and letting things go and performing good femininity. It's good to have a board to vent our spleen and unleash our most uncharitable thoughts.

Do we? I don’t!

BIossomtoes · 21/09/2026 21:10

placemats · 21/09/2026 21:07

Wow. That's one heck of a curve ball.

Oh wait, you're being sarcastic.

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Isn’t it just. Differing views are one thing, the level of hatred on some threads these days is something else. I’ve been here a decade and it’s completely different now.

JaneJeffer · 21/09/2026 21:12

Whisperwaves · 21/09/2026 20:51

A block poster option would help.

How would it help?

BugJuice · 21/09/2026 21:12

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 20:41

Hilarious that this whole thread is breaking talk guidelines but it's everyone else that's the problem. That figures.

Which talk guidelines is it breaking?

placemats · 21/09/2026 21:13

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 20:41

Hilarious that this whole thread is breaking talk guidelines but it's everyone else that's the problem. That figures.

Hilarious?

NormasArse · 21/09/2026 21:13

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 21/09/2026 19:51

@Oncetwicethreetimesmore , I know some people believe there is only one ‘right’ way to think but that’s just not true and providing people are posting within the rules of this site and the law of our lands then they are entitled to their opinions.
In answer to your question ‘why’? The answer is really simple, successive governments have totally ignored the very reasonable concerns of the vast majority of the general public and now people are getting fed up. It may seem to you that there is an increase of people feeling this way but I think it’s more likely that people who previously were reticent to express their feelings for fear of being branded racist have given up caring what the woke left think of them because most of them are not racist at all.
There are racists though and if nothing is done to address the concerns of British people there will be an increase in recruitment to their ranks as there has been elsewhere in Europe.

‘Woke Left’.

Honestly, what, in your opinion, does woke mean?

BunfightBetty · 21/09/2026 21:14

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:06

I tend to make a mental note of those who ignore it when data sources or evidence is posted and then double down on their message. That tells me they are not posting in good faith. And there are sadly a lot like that.

That's a good way of weeding some of them out, they do tend to do that - just avoid awkward questions and keep banging their drum regardless.

Unfortunately, I suspect some genuine posters who are fanatical about their chosen opinions also do this too - if you ask them an awkward question that answering honestly and straightforwardly would lead them to show themselves to be wrong, they just get angry and deflect (usually to insulting). The real issue is probably that they don't want to face up to their contradictions themselves. But it does muddy the waters.

I find some of the bogus posters start, over a number of posts, to show that they don't quite get the nuance of the fine detail of British culture. So a sense of something being 'off' kind of builds over a number of posts.

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:15

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:06

I tend to make a mental note of those who ignore it when data sources or evidence is posted and then double down on their message. That tells me they are not posting in good faith. And there are sadly a lot like that.

I bet. Even if you’re incorrect.

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:17

NormasArse · 21/09/2026 21:13

‘Woke Left’.

Honestly, what, in your opinion, does woke mean?

The moment someone uses 'woke left', you know they have nothing of substance to say.

To be fair 'far right' is also overused - far better to dissect what is being posted and counter it with evidence.

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:18

BugJuice · 21/09/2026 21:12

Which talk guidelines is it breaking?

Inferring that people are somebody else instead of every day women posting on a forum. Slagging people off about how much time they spend on the site and they've got no lives. So calling people sock puppets, trolls and generally being nasty - while saying there is a rise in mean posts.

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:18

placemats · 21/09/2026 21:13

Hilarious?

Yes, or do you prefer ironic?

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:19

BunfightBetty · 21/09/2026 21:14

That's a good way of weeding some of them out, they do tend to do that - just avoid awkward questions and keep banging their drum regardless.

Unfortunately, I suspect some genuine posters who are fanatical about their chosen opinions also do this too - if you ask them an awkward question that answering honestly and straightforwardly would lead them to show themselves to be wrong, they just get angry and deflect (usually to insulting). The real issue is probably that they don't want to face up to their contradictions themselves. But it does muddy the waters.

I find some of the bogus posters start, over a number of posts, to show that they don't quite get the nuance of the fine detail of British culture. So a sense of something being 'off' kind of builds over a number of posts.

You're correct - there are posters who are so strong in their convictions that they have become almost a religious faith. You can provide them with all the source data in the world, but they do not want to accept it. One clear example is the people who believe illegal immigration is rising - they need that belief to maintain their ideology, so they simply dismiss any evidence presented as fake.

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:21

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:19

You're correct - there are posters who are so strong in their convictions that they have become almost a religious faith. You can provide them with all the source data in the world, but they do not want to accept it. One clear example is the people who believe illegal immigration is rising - they need that belief to maintain their ideology, so they simply dismiss any evidence presented as fake.

You can argue it on the thread if you’re so sure. Probably better than this vague and incorrect stuff.

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:22

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:21

You can argue it on the thread if you’re so sure. Probably better than this vague and incorrect stuff.

What is incorrect about what I have said?

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:23

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:22

What is incorrect about what I have said?

Go to the thread you’re talking about rather that TAAT.

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:25

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:23

Go to the thread you’re talking about rather that TAAT.

This isn't a TAAT. This is a thread about the levels of hatred on MN as a whole. Which is a topic that deserves to be discussed. If it makes you uncomfortable, well... I am making points based on what I see on MN on a daily basis. I have no idea why you seem to take it personally.

TemperanceWest · 21/09/2026 21:25

LuckyHazelFox · 21/09/2026 21:18

Inferring that people are somebody else instead of every day women posting on a forum. Slagging people off about how much time they spend on the site and they've got no lives. So calling people sock puppets, trolls and generally being nasty - while saying there is a rise in mean posts.

It is a general discussion and not aimed at particular posters. Nobody has been named or singled out. So how are TG being broken?

EasternStandard · 21/09/2026 21:28

pointythings · 21/09/2026 21:25

This isn't a TAAT. This is a thread about the levels of hatred on MN as a whole. Which is a topic that deserves to be discussed. If it makes you uncomfortable, well... I am making points based on what I see on MN on a daily basis. I have no idea why you seem to take it personally.

Not sure about uncomfortable but I wasn’t surprised at your post. I think you have it wrong, but if you want to pick it up go back to that thread.

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