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Why so much hate on MN?

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Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 18:44

@MNHQ
Why so much hate on MN?
Posters hiding behind complaints about the government, presenting themselves as reasonable actors, to push hate about asylum seekers, people with disabilities, benefit claimants..Mostly the same names all day everyday.
I am told to report - MN just not interested.
I am told to hide the thread..
Why isn't moderation better?
I know this will always exist and exists on other platforms but MN makes no effort to even try to anything about it.
You can't really sell MN as a caring, supportive site with all this stuff offered on a daily basis in active.

OP posts:
TemperanceWest · Today 08:52

EasternStandard · Today 08:50

Yes scroll on by. It helps. Then posters get annoyed at the avoiding but it really does help.

Don’t worry about the digs below, enjoy your day Flowers

Are you going to condemn the digs about people's mental health too, or is that acceptable?

pointythings · Today 08:55

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:40

Really? I've got friends for all that, but thanks for sharing.

I have several RL friends that I initially met on MN. Technology allows us to connect with people in new ways; additional rather than instead of. Having a life and friends can be achieved in lots of ways, and none is better than another. Two of my friends who are married met via OLD, so sneering at starting out online is a bit off. As long as you follow guidelines for managing online to RL, it's perfectly safe.

DuncinToffee · Today 08:55

Antifa

Anti Fascist

Happy to be that type

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:57

Antifa, the fascists themselves who clobber women for being GC. Delighted not to be that type.

pointythings · Today 08:58

DuncinToffee · Today 08:55

Antifa

Anti Fascist

Happy to be that type

Me too. It's not the gotcha people think it is.

DuncinToffee · Today 09:02

Clobber women is never ok, GC or Farage hecklers.

TemperanceWest · Today 09:02

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:57

Antifa, the fascists themselves who clobber women for being GC. Delighted not to be that type.

You do understand it is possible to be left wing and not agree with clobbering women regardless of whether they are GC or not?

I know that some Reform types think it is OK to clobber women they don't agree with, though.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 09:02

pointythings · Today 08:55

I have several RL friends that I initially met on MN. Technology allows us to connect with people in new ways; additional rather than instead of. Having a life and friends can be achieved in lots of ways, and none is better than another. Two of my friends who are married met via OLD, so sneering at starting out online is a bit off. As long as you follow guidelines for managing online to RL, it's perfectly safe.

Your perogative, as is mine on the amount of times I post on MN.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 09:04

I see this has thread has turned from a question to the mods to singling out posters, AKA attacks. I don't think I will add to it.

pointythings · Today 09:09

LuckyHazelFox · Today 09:02

Your perogative, as is mine on the amount of times I post on MN.

I haven't mentioned your posting frequency Confused.

pointythings · Today 09:09

DuncinToffee · Today 09:02

Clobber women is never ok, GC or Farage hecklers.

Hard agree. Once again: nuance and complexity.

Schlossadler · Today 09:12

Piggywaspushed · Today 08:44

You like women - but when they post a lot on specific issues or seem perhaps to get rather riled they have 'MH issues'.

Of course.

You may want to provoke me, but I am not going to bite.

It also detracts from the real and pressing issues.

Have a good day.

Oncetwicethreetimesmore · Today 09:13

Lots of participation in this thread (from many of the usual voices) - not surprising really.

OP posts:
EasternStandard · Today 09:14

LuckyHazelFox · Today 09:04

I see this has thread has turned from a question to the mods to singling out posters, AKA attacks. I don't think I will add to it.

Good idea.

Schlossadler · Today 09:14

DuncinToffee · Today 08:47

Scloss Adler was quite a hateful place, some user names seem apt

Once again, no hate here.

And, back to the news flow, and data.

TemperanceWest · Today 09:16

EasternStandard · Today 09:14

Good idea.

Yes. It is a shame old schlossers decided to start getting personal. We should all move on.

dreamiesformolly · Today 09:24

DuncinToffee · Today 08:47

Scloss Adler was quite a hateful place, some user names seem apt

Yes indeed. I find that particular poster's name rather interesting personally.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 09:35

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:21

Oh well, nothing wrong with making the most of a service I pay for. I'm not stupid enough though to exchange phone numbers with people on here. I mean, that really is taking a forum full of strangers seriously.

You pay to use MN?

That introduces a whole other angle that I hadn't previously considered.

EasternStandard · Today 09:37

Why would paying for premium matter? It’s just to avoid ads isn’t it.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 09:43

It has simply dawned on me - somewhat belatedly, I admit - that some MNers are worth more to MNHQ than others.

pointythings · Today 09:44

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Today 09:35

You pay to use MN?

That introduces a whole other angle that I hadn't previously considered.

It's a fiver a month to dodgy ads, not a big deal. Personally I can't justify that cost, but we're all free to make our own choices. I prioritise my posh coffee habit.

EasternStandard · Today 09:46

I doubt mnhq cross check who stumps up a fiver each month.

BIossomtoes · Today 09:47

EasternStandard · Today 09:46

I doubt mnhq cross check who stumps up a fiver each month.

I bet they do.

EasternStandard · Today 09:50

I don’t pay, madness that anyone thinks it matters but ok.

So many dislikes, other platforms are available.

TemperanceWest · Today 09:50

They probably wouldn't even need to cross check, it will be on the person's account, in the same way as mnhq know all the user names a person has. Mnhq can see a lot from their side as pip once told me.