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Why so much hate on MN?

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Oncetwicethreetimesmore · 21/09/2026 18:44

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Why so much hate on MN?
Posters hiding behind complaints about the government, presenting themselves as reasonable actors, to push hate about asylum seekers, people with disabilities, benefit claimants..Mostly the same names all day everyday.
I am told to report - MN just not interested.
I am told to hide the thread..
Why isn't moderation better?
I know this will always exist and exists on other platforms but MN makes no effort to even try to anything about it.
You can't really sell MN as a caring, supportive site with all this stuff offered on a daily basis in active.

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BIossomtoes · Today 07:52

EasternStandard · Today 07:49

I think calling posters narrow minded is no help. But good idea.

And implying people who don’t agree with you have mental health issues is helpful?

EasternStandard · Today 07:54

TemperanceWest · Today 07:38

Labelling another language "nonsense" is a bit narrow minded, but a sign of MH issues? No. Don't be soft.

Here it’s not that long ago.

Schlossadler · Today 07:59

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BIossomtoes · Today 08:08

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Presumably you include your friend @LuckyHazelFox who’s here morning, noon and night.

Schlossadler · Today 08:12

Perhaps take a break, and think about it.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:15

BIossomtoes · Today 08:08

Presumably you include your friend @LuckyHazelFox who’s here morning, noon and night.

If my presence offends you, you know the answer to that. I'm going nowhere.

LizzieW1969 · Today 08:18

BIossomtoes · Today 08:08

Presumably you include your friend @LuckyHazelFox who’s here morning, noon and night.

^Quite. Schlossader is on here a lot herself, too, as is EasternStandard. Pot and kettle spring to mind.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:21

LizzieW1969 · Today 08:18

^Quite. Schlossader is on here a lot herself, too, as is EasternStandard. Pot and kettle spring to mind.

Oh well, nothing wrong with making the most of a service I pay for. I'm not stupid enough though to exchange phone numbers with people on here. I mean, that really is taking a forum full of strangers seriously.

Schlossadler · Today 08:23

LizzieW1969 · Today 08:18

^Quite. Schlossader is on here a lot herself, too, as is EasternStandard. Pot and kettle spring to mind.

Himself.

Yes, and I reflect on myself. I will try to be better, and focus on the issues and be data/headline-led, rather than engage in mud-slinging.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:26

Schlossadler · Today 08:23

Himself.

Yes, and I reflect on myself. I will try to be better, and focus on the issues and be data/headline-led, rather than engage in mud-slinging.

I didn't realise you were male. Good on you. Nice to get a good representation of demographics.

Schlossadler · Today 08:32

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:26

I didn't realise you were male. Good on you. Nice to get a good representation of demographics.

Thank you.

BTW, without being a creep - I am very much pro women.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:33

Schlossadler · Today 08:32

Thank you.

BTW, without being a creep - I am very much pro women.

Haha glad you are. We've got enough of the Antifa types out there.

TemperanceWest · Today 08:39

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:21

Oh well, nothing wrong with making the most of a service I pay for. I'm not stupid enough though to exchange phone numbers with people on here. I mean, that really is taking a forum full of strangers seriously.

How do you know people have exchanged numbers?

As long as one is extremely choosy about who one shares one's number with it, it is safe enough I would think. There used to be regular MN meet ups back in the day, although that was before my time. I think there used to be a Secret Santa too.

Eta: You pay for MN? Is there much advantage to the paid version?

EasternStandard · Today 08:40

LizzieW1969 · Today 08:18

^Quite. Schlossader is on here a lot herself, too, as is EasternStandard. Pot and kettle spring to mind.

And you reading my posts.

I don’t mind people posting, the digs at @LuckyHazelFoxfor posting are the usual.

I’m for a broad range of views rather than those who make digs as you are here.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:40

TemperanceWest · Today 08:39

How do you know people have exchanged numbers?

As long as one is extremely choosy about who one shares one's number with it, it is safe enough I would think. There used to be regular MN meet ups back in the day, although that was before my time. I think there used to be a Secret Santa too.

Eta: You pay for MN? Is there much advantage to the paid version?

Edited

Really? I've got friends for all that, but thanks for sharing.

Piggywaspushed · Today 08:44

You like women - but when they post a lot on specific issues or seem perhaps to get rather riled they have 'MH issues'.

Of course.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:45

EasternStandard · Today 08:40

And you reading my posts.

I don’t mind people posting, the digs at @LuckyHazelFoxfor posting are the usual.

I’m for a broad range of views rather than those who make digs as you are here.

We are back to the frequency with which other posters must be here to be noticing posting habits. I did have one very bizarre encounter with somebody who counted how many times and how often I posted on a particular thread. Totally missing the point I was being quoted in quick succession, by a series of people.

TemperanceWest · Today 08:45

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:40

Really? I've got friends for all that, but thanks for sharing.

It's not unusual these days for friendships to begin online. Even marriages! Especially amongst younger people. My lovely niece met her husband online and they're blissfully happy.

EasternStandard · Today 08:46

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:45

We are back to the frequency with which other posters must be here to be noticing posting habits. I did have one very bizarre encounter with somebody who counted how many times and how often I posted on a particular thread. Totally missing the point I was being quoted in quick succession, by a series of people.

Well there is that. The repeated quoting. I ignore a lot as it’s as someone said on another thread like the Arabian sand analogy. But still.

BIossomtoes · Today 08:46

TemperanceWest · Today 08:45

It's not unusual these days for friendships to begin online. Even marriages! Especially amongst younger people. My lovely niece met her husband online and they're blissfully happy.

I met my bloke online 28 years ago. ☺️

DuncinToffee · Today 08:47

Scloss Adler was quite a hateful place, some user names seem apt

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:49

EasternStandard · Today 08:46

Well there is that. The repeated quoting. I ignore a lot as it’s as someone said on another thread like the Arabian sand analogy. But still.

You know what, you've just reminded me. I need to just not respond when I'm quoted, by certain names. It's good to see who's posting in good faith or not. It will do in the absence of a block user button.

LizzieW1969 · Today 08:49

BIossomtoes · Today 08:46

I met my bloke online 28 years ago. ☺️

My DSis met her lovely DH online, and they married in 2007. They’re still blissfully happy together m.

EasternStandard · Today 08:50

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:49

You know what, you've just reminded me. I need to just not respond when I'm quoted, by certain names. It's good to see who's posting in good faith or not. It will do in the absence of a block user button.

Yes scroll on by. It helps. Then posters get annoyed at the avoiding but it really does help.

Don’t worry about the digs below, enjoy your day Flowers

LuckyHazelFox · Today 08:51

EasternStandard · Today 08:50

Yes scroll on by. It helps. Then posters get annoyed at the avoiding but it really does help.

Don’t worry about the digs below, enjoy your day Flowers

Thanks Eastern you too 👍