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Trans identified Mumsnet member AidaP is scraping Mumsnet

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BambooLampshade · 28/04/2026 21:34

Hi Mumsnet, though you should know that a trans identified man - who often posts on Mumsnet as @aidap - is scraping the feminimism board, in order to create some sort of grading system.

It's basically electronic stalking.

What is this?

Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads.

I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

Aida (@aidap.bsky.social)

What is this? Oh yes, I have downloaded most of mumsnet and we will be doing embeddings of the content to try to understand how does the rot and hate builds and spreads. I never had so much hate and delusion on my hard drive before 😅

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3mkklbtpgbs2s

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WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 00:13

ImthatBoleyngirl · Yesterday 00:09

Some men do dress up as women in order to perve, and some have Autogynephilia. Its just a fact of life.

The most blatant example is probably Andrew Burns/Obi Wan Kenobi/Mr Mighty Almighty/Mitzababy/Tiffany Scott, late of this parish. Even his own brother said that he was 'at it'. He was only refused access to the women's prison estate because of the uproar surrounding the Isla Bryson case.

Then there's Lennon/Katie Dolatowski who used his claimed identity to access female children.

SummerFate · Yesterday 00:45

BambooLampshade · 28/04/2026 23:21

It's not attention. It's sunlight.

I feel ill 🤮

Beenwhereyouareagain · Yesterday 00:59

BambooLampshade · 28/04/2026 23:43

He's a stalker. It's gone beyond "what are they saying today" type stuff.

Remember, @aidap who Mumsnet still allow to be a poster here, said this:

And let's send a clear message to the world: fuck bigots and especially nazirowling with a splintery rolling pin 😘 We are here, proud and happy and not going anywhere 🌈🏳️‍⚧️🥳🥰

https://bsky.app/profile/aidap.bsky.social/post/3midp5hebd22a

What's up with that?!?!

MN usually bans trolls and abusive posters. It sounds like AidaP is really bad news, so why haven't MN banned them?

BEFORE they scraped Mumsnet.

BambooLampshade · Yesterday 01:02

Beenwhereyouareagain · Yesterday 00:59

What's up with that?!?!

MN usually bans trolls and abusive posters. It sounds like AidaP is really bad news, so why haven't MN banned them?

BEFORE they scraped Mumsnet.

AidaP posted that on Bluesky. Where he constantly links back to the threads he's on, on Mumsnet. So Mumsnet cannot pretend they don't know that it's him, on here.

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BambooLampshade · Yesterday 01:05

I did not know that. The more sunlight, the better.

Time for Mumsnet to ban him, I think.

(I mean, obviously he'll then be back with a VPN etc, he can't help but come to scold us, but let's stand up for what we can)

ETA: Sorry, messed up a quote of @Hedgehogforshort there.

"You know i posted here too about him?"

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Meadowfinch · Yesterday 01:12

TheAutumnCrow · 28/04/2026 22:54

I think he’s making a list, and checking it twice.

😂😂

FantasyFoodhall · Yesterday 01:27

No idea who this person is but they sound like a massive twat tbh

ForCosyLion · Yesterday 01:41

OK, I don't really know exactly what data scraping is or what it entails, but it seems that it's people who analyse what's being said on a website, is that right?

If so, I don't know what can really be done about that given that websites like this are public and anybody can access what people write.

RiversEdge · Yesterday 01:46

FantasyFoodhall · Yesterday 01:27

No idea who this person is but they sound like a massive twat tbh

*he

viques · Yesterday 01:48

FantasyFoodhall · Yesterday 01:27

No idea who this person is but they sound like a massive twat tbh

He will love you for that comment. A twat is actually what he wishes he had, sadly being called one is probably as close as he will get, as unfortunately he has a dick instead.

Carla786 · Yesterday 01:52

I hate that user but I'm not sure if scraping posts means they can be banned. The abusive language and derailing are surely ban worthy though.

Carla786 · Yesterday 01:53

ForCosyLion · Yesterday 01:41

OK, I don't really know exactly what data scraping is or what it entails, but it seems that it's people who analyse what's being said on a website, is that right?

If so, I don't know what can really be done about that given that websites like this are public and anybody can access what people write.

This

Carla786 · Yesterday 01:55

ErrolTheDragon · Yesterday 00:11

but it’s always been ‘by parents, for parents’ - and yet happy to accommodate non-parents, even has a board for MNers without kids too. Which IMO is fine.
And there’s really no way to verify a persons sex on a platform which (for very good reasons - women in coercive relationships etc) allows anonymity.

Yes, there is Dadsnet and posters can't be banned for being male only.

Ollldy78 · Yesterday 02:03

Boiledbeetle · 28/04/2026 23:02

He's using a computer programme and downloading all the posts in all threads on the FWR board and getting a computer programme to do god knows what with the data in order to find out who knows what.

Meanwhile the gerbils who came into existence during the last data scrape are practising their new cheer.

Okay, so aidap comes across as an abhorrent human being, but do you think that the hysterical responses making up the majority of this thread are coming across well? Or are most of you channelling primary-school-“the teachers coming”-screamy-little-girl energy..?

..however, Im loving this “bill gates harvesting your dna” style explanation of aidap’s nefarious plot! 😂

FantasyFoodhall · Yesterday 02:03

viques · Yesterday 01:48

He will love you for that comment. A twat is actually what he wishes he had, sadly being called one is probably as close as he will get, as unfortunately he has a dick instead.

Beg your pardon, that was poorly thought through. Please change ‘massive twat’ to ‘tedious bellend’.

Igmum · Yesterday 02:20

ForCosyLion · Yesterday 01:41

OK, I don't really know exactly what data scraping is or what it entails, but it seems that it's people who analyse what's being said on a website, is that right?

If so, I don't know what can really be done about that given that websites like this are public and anybody can access what people write.

It’s explicitly against the Mumsnet terms and conditions. A while back Aston university academics were supervising a PhD student who was scraping Mumsnet data without permission to show what bigots we were (no, I don’t know how that got ethical approval either) and they got into trouble. Not sure how it ended. Of course, a university is easier to locate than some random on the internet with a made up name but fingers crossed Mumsnet can do something about this.

Nofeckingway · Yesterday 02:52

I originally only came on MN for housekeeping tips.

Overtheatlantic · Yesterday 03:03

He can do whatever he wants but he will never have a vagina. Bwahahaha.

Mapletree1985 · Yesterday 05:15

What does he hope to gain from this? What is his end goal?

Bluegreenbird · Yesterday 05:38

Fascinating to compare the violent imagery of many TRA to the debate on this site and conclude that Mumsnet is the real problem.

Radarqueen · Yesterday 05:40

Ollldy78 · Yesterday 02:03

Okay, so aidap comes across as an abhorrent human being, but do you think that the hysterical responses making up the majority of this thread are coming across well? Or are most of you channelling primary-school-“the teachers coming”-screamy-little-girl energy..?

..however, Im loving this “bill gates harvesting your dna” style explanation of aidap’s nefarious plot! 😂

Hysterical? Screamy little girls? Why the misogyny?

PollyBell · Yesterday 05:47

So someone takes what people freely put on the internet and put it some place else and now there is hysteria over it?

I dont think mm has ever said they are secret or hidden same way people whinge about the government having access to details people also freely put out there

NeelyOHara · Yesterday 06:02

Ollldy78 · Yesterday 02:03

Okay, so aidap comes across as an abhorrent human being, but do you think that the hysterical responses making up the majority of this thread are coming across well? Or are most of you channelling primary-school-“the teachers coming”-screamy-little-girl energy..?

..however, Im loving this “bill gates harvesting your dna” style explanation of aidap’s nefarious plot! 😂

‘Screamy little girl energy’. WTF? Get lost.

Wearenotborg · Yesterday 06:02

I was just thinking this. Bless him, he’s trying so hard to be edgy and clever. It’s like when your 5 year old runs off to write a note about why mummy is a big meanie for saying no.

PlayingDevilsAdvocateisinteresting · Yesterday 06:12

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 28/04/2026 23:11

Now I can't get the aria from The Mikado out of my head.

I will be showing my ignorance here as I don't know anything about The Mikado, but I thought to myself "why not embarrass yourself a bit more (@PlayingDevilsAdvocate.....) and show just how low brow you (me) obviously are?" So, I am rising to my own silly challenge:

I immediately thought of Santa when I read 'TheAutumnCrow's' comment, and I appreciated it as such 😉

I am now off to address Mr Google to see what he can tell me about 'The Mikado' ...
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