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JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 18:49

@MNHQ this deletion message is untrue and not fair to the OP of the thread.

What?
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FleurDeLizz · 25/05/2022 19:16

Sounds like it needed reporting if @Badqueen is right

JayAlfredPrufrock · 25/05/2022 19:17

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

WeDontShutUpAboutBruno · 25/05/2022 19:17

I didn't see the op but if @Badqueen is right and you said you were posting because you were uncomfortable at the sight of a picture of a pregnant transman then I can see why MNHQ took it down.

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:18

Except she isn't @FleurDeLizz but because the thread is deleted she can say anything about it.

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PaddleBoardingMomma · 25/05/2022 19:18

And to add... it wasn't "riddled" with transphobia. It was full of women who are, quite rightly, growing very tired and concerned in regards to the way we are being erased, quietened and gaslit into accepting our sex is worthless, the language used to describe us is worthless and our opinions don't matter.

Hallyup89 · 25/05/2022 19:21

No, she wasn't uncivil. Perhaps you need to look up the meaning of the word, mnhq. Absolutely pathetic.

Badqueen · 25/05/2022 19:21

It was about a poster in a maternity dept, asking people to respect LGBTQ patients and not abuse them.

After seeing that thread i can see why it was necessary.

MrsDrake · 25/05/2022 19:22

PaddleBoardingMomma · 25/05/2022 19:18

And to add... it wasn't "riddled" with transphobia. It was full of women who are, quite rightly, growing very tired and concerned in regards to the way we are being erased, quietened and gaslit into accepting our sex is worthless, the language used to describe us is worthless and our opinions don't matter.

Agreed.

Anyone can claim anything about the thread now, it’s deleted. Shame as there were some fantastic posts.

FleurDeLizz · 25/05/2022 19:24

yeah yeah we’ve heard it all before. If someone said they were uncomfortable seeing a pregnant transman well - that’s transphobia. I guess the people on FWR are so used to closing their eyes to it but it doesn’t mean it’s not there

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:24

Badqueen · 25/05/2022 19:21

It was about a poster in a maternity dept, asking people to respect LGBTQ patients and not abuse them.

After seeing that thread i can see why it was necessary.

Stop with your lies

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JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:26

@MNHQ thanks to you deleting the thread people are now lying about the content of the thread. Disgraceful of you.

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Badqueen · 25/05/2022 19:26

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:14

So I gather you reported it @Badqueen ?

Yes i did. So did plenty of other people it seems because the email i was sent by mnhq was a mass reply.

I know the some people won't change their minds even if they didn't see the thread, but i thought I'd post to let other people know the actual content of the thread before some get carried away with the "mnhq are silencing women" trope. There was blatant and gross transphobia, homophobia and racism. That's what mnhq were silencing.

Badqueen · 25/05/2022 19:27

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:24

Stop with your lies

What possible reason would i have to lie about a thread on an internet forum?

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:27

So did plenty of other people
You have no way of knowing that

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JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:28

Oh I wonder @Badqueen

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JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:29

And why delete the deletion message @MNHQ?

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PaddleBoardingMomma · 25/05/2022 19:30

FleurDeLizz · 25/05/2022 19:24

yeah yeah we’ve heard it all before. If someone said they were uncomfortable seeing a pregnant transman well - that’s transphobia. I guess the people on FWR are so used to closing their eyes to it but it doesn’t mean it’s not there

Seriously?

I have to wonder about the mentality of people with this view point. Are you not phased by the bizarre eradication of language in regards to women to appease the very small minority? Cervix havers, bleeders, menstruaters, chest feeders, birthing person?

Are you not concerned that womens spaces are free to be used by men, no matter how inappropriate and uncomfortable it makes women? Men identifying as women in female prisons, female changing areas, womens sports? That there is a womens rape crisis centre run by a man in a dress?

If non if this causes you concern I can only presume you are either a man who has no concept of what it's really like to be a woman, a TRA who has swallowed the "be kind" ideology without having the mental capacity to understand it's at the detriment of women, or... you hate women and are happy we are being erased?

Answers on a postcard please.

EarringsandLipstick · 25/05/2022 19:32

PaddleBoardingMomma · 25/05/2022 19:18

And to add... it wasn't "riddled" with transphobia. It was full of women who are, quite rightly, growing very tired and concerned in regards to the way we are being erased, quietened and gaslit into accepting our sex is worthless, the language used to describe us is worthless and our opinions don't matter.

💯 this

FleurDeLizz · 25/05/2022 19:33

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:27

So did plenty of other people
You have no way of knowing that

She said it was a mass mail you plum. That means more than one person found the thread objectionable. You know once you step out from under the FWR rock, a lot of people on MN will take issue with what you say

EarringsandLipstick · 25/05/2022 19:33

There was blatant and gross transphobia, homophobia and racism.

That is completely untrue, certainly up to the point I read, c 1 hour ago.

PaddleBoardingMomma · 25/05/2022 19:33

@Badqueen

Wtf, racism?!

Well now you are just peddling utter lies in an attempt to convince those here who didn't read the thread that we were all being entirely hideous.

Please, please, tell us what you deemed to be racist in the slightest!

I'm on the edge of my seat to know what it was!

(And if you guys haven't noticed yet, this is the general MO of trans ideologists, throw whatever shit you can at those you don't agree with and hope something sticks!)

"They we're all homophonic racists hating on trans people for no reason!" Bollocks.

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 19:33

She said it was a mass mail you plum.
Why so abusive? And learn to read.

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EarringsandLipstick · 25/05/2022 19:34

I'm shocked at this deletion message. It's deeply unfair to the OP

Stomacharmeleon · 25/05/2022 19:34

@FleurDeLizz I completely disagree and think more people on here would agree if they weren't bulldozed and castigated for not having the 'right' opinion.

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 25/05/2022 19:35

So why weren't the 'uncivil' posts deleted? Why the whole thread?
Aibu is full of uncivil posters.