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Does anyone actually enjoy 69?

101 replies

Swimawayyy · 20/02/2023 20:08

I’m not really sure I’m a fan.
Partner sort of got himself into position where it was clear that’s what he wanted but I couldn’t angle my head properly and it all just felt a bit awkward. I said afterwards that I wasnt really a fan. I love oral- giving and receiving, but can’t seem to give enthusiastically whilst receiving as I can’t focus - if that makes sense.

anyway… just interested to know what others think 🤔

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MoserRothOrangeandAlmond · 22/02/2023 14:12

It's great, it turns me on when I'm giving oral. I always orgasm first then finish him off!
Husband loves it too

Runaround50 · 22/02/2023 16:30

Nope! Far too much activity. My brain fogged menopausal brain can't cope with multi tasking! 😀

C1N1C · 22/02/2023 16:54

I'm a guy, could take it or leave it.

juliettesmother · 22/02/2023 23:29

I love it.

WithTheirDogAfterTheWar · 22/02/2023 23:53

I'm another love it. Any way up or side by side.

BCBird · 01/04/2023 17:08

When my partner used to say let's do 69, I would think ooooh my poor hip🤣I liked giving head or him.down on me but both at the same time,well my 50.plus knackered body lacked agility. We used to laugh a lot. Happy days.

bedtimeisthebest · 08/04/2023 17:52

69 is fun but can be tricky coordinating it.

I do 69 with various women in my life (wife, FwB and F in Couple we know) but a few weeks ago I did my first ever MM 69 with the man of the couple and found it hard (no pun intended) . Even though we've both given each other oral on a good number of occasions this felt strange and TBH I was glad when we had both cum.

They are coming again tonight and I doubt this will be repeated any time soon.

Runaround50 · 08/04/2023 17:53

Nope! I have zero sense of coordination!

Estherpologist · 09/04/2023 10:47

If I'm receiving oral, I kind of like to join in, and really love 69s because of that. But I'm probably not doing as good a job myself, or enjoying the oral quite as much as if I can concentrate on one thing at a time.

Whammyyammy · 10/04/2023 11:11

I'm not a fan. Enjoy I both ways, but husband is so good and dedicated at giving me oral, and feel he isn't quite as focused during a 69, and I'm quite dominating so prefer to have him commit to it fully.

Runaround50 · 10/04/2023 11:32

It's like trying to rub your head and par your tummy at the same time! 🙈

Runaround50 · 10/04/2023 11:33

pat

McSlowburn · 10/04/2023 11:38

AbsolutePixels · 20/02/2023 20:24

It's rubbish. Like trying to pat my head and rub my tummy at the same time: too much going on!!

LOL!!

AlexaAdventuress · 10/04/2023 11:50

It's not the easiest way to orgasm, for either of us, but mutual licking and kissing at the same time is enjoyable in its own right. As my partner likes licking me so much, sometimes I enjoy teasing him by presenting my groin to his face while I've still got my clothes on - I'm all packed away where you can't get at me! I'm all dressed and ready to face the world and he's exposed and about to orgasm helplessly. Sorry if that's too much information.

SNWannabe · 10/04/2023 15:27

Hduo2018 · 22/02/2023 07:27

In an MF relationship, the F lies on side and the M goes down town with his legs up near F head.

The F opens her legs to provide access and the M lies his head on her lower inner thigh with a birdseye view of the money.

the F does the same up the other end.

simples!

Even on our sides his penis is the wrong way though...as its erect, its pointing down towards my chin so I can't get it in my mouth properly... we must not be the right heights... and I also cannot multitask well. So its a no from me.

Rdub · 10/04/2023 21:44

I love a good 69. My hubby knows what to do and his tongue is great on my clit. Also his penis slides down nicely in my mouth. He cums so hard on this position. Which I love so much when he explodes in my mouth. Sorry if too much detail!

bedtimeisthebest · 11/04/2023 07:22

@Rdub
Never too much detail We're all adults on this site and it's great to hear explicit details of others.

upsydaisy22 · 12/04/2023 06:36

AbsolutePixels · 20/02/2023 20:24

It's rubbish. Like trying to pat my head and rub my tummy at the same time: too much going on!!

Haaaaaa made my day this has

CuriousD · 22/04/2023 15:12

It is my wife's favourite sex act and we do it almost every time we have sex. She really loves it sooooo much.

I was a little indifferent when we first met, but now enjoy it more and more.

I don't find any problems with concentrating on giving while receiving other than signalling to my wife when I close to coming; and she needs to back off for a while.

LadyxGadyver · 23/04/2023 17:19

Me and Dh love it now in saying this when hes going at it i cannot concentrate on him at the same time and vice versa lol it does make it where we are basically taking turns haha but for us its a defo yes

Snoopy12 · 28/04/2023 10:31

Side by side 69 is fantastic. My wife cums a few times then I lie back and she makes me cum orally.

Snoopy12 · 28/04/2023 10:33

I have to lie in a certain position sometimes as my penis bends to the left slightly when it is erect. 😊

notanotherdad · 17/01/2025 19:23

I agree 100% I love oral, but I like to enjoy giving it and I enjoy receiving, but I’m happy to miss out if I can focus and enjoy what I’m doing lol

Gymbunny2025 · 17/01/2025 21:56

I'm a massive fan. I get turned on giving and obviously like receiving and being on top means I can control it a little bit. When I am close I normally pause the giving as I'm not THAT good at multitasking 😂

AlexandrinaH · 18/01/2025 00:30

I love it - and thankfully so does my DH. We do it most times we have sex and we usually time it perfectly to orgasm as the same time. We have had enough practice 😆

It doesn’t usually last long as I love giving him pleasure at the same time as he is giving to me. It’s such a turn on and I have to concentrate really hard not to finish too quickly; I usually have to run all the household chores through my mind 😂😂

I just love it.

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