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Does anyone actually enjoy 69?

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Swimawayyy · 20/02/2023 20:08

I’m not really sure I’m a fan.
Partner sort of got himself into position where it was clear that’s what he wanted but I couldn’t angle my head properly and it all just felt a bit awkward. I said afterwards that I wasnt really a fan. I love oral- giving and receiving, but can’t seem to give enthusiastically whilst receiving as I can’t focus - if that makes sense.

anyway… just interested to know what others think 🤔

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PermanentTemporary · 20/02/2023 20:11

I'm with you. I've probably done it a handful of times and never for long. I just can't concentrate on either activity. But then I'm not a fan of simultaneous PIV and clitoral action either.

My least favourite position must be reverse cowgirl but 69 is also, ironically, near the bottom.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 20/02/2023 20:11

I too struggle to really focus on what's infront of me because he's so bloody good at it.

But he enjoys it so much, I'm more than enthusiastic about them.

AbsolutePixels · 20/02/2023 20:24

It's rubbish. Like trying to pat my head and rub my tummy at the same time: too much going on!!

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Swimawayyy · 20/02/2023 20:27

Well that’s 4 out of 4 of us.

I’d much prefer him to go down first… then when it’s my turn I’m pst climax, extremely grateful and eager to return the favour!

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Zanatdy · 20/02/2023 20:33

PermanentTemporary · 20/02/2023 20:11

I'm with you. I've probably done it a handful of times and never for long. I just can't concentrate on either activity. But then I'm not a fan of simultaneous PIV and clitoral action either.

My least favourite position must be reverse cowgirl but 69 is also, ironically, near the bottom.

I did reverse cowgirl for the first time recently. I quite enjoyed it but I’m also not a fan of 69. It’s too much to focus on and I can’t come if I’m trying to focus on his pleasure too. So nope, rather one at a time please!

Fentylipgloss · 20/02/2023 20:38

Nope. Not for me.

feellikezerobucks · 20/02/2023 20:41

I tell my DH I refuse to multitask oral...so it's a no from me!

supercatlady · 20/02/2023 20:48

Ditto.
off to Google reverse cowgirl!

Hedjwitch · 20/02/2023 20:52

Not a fan

Thorninhisside · 20/02/2023 20:58

I'm a bloke and I can't stand it. I love giving oral but can't concentrate if something else is happening at the same time.
Mind you, my current partner doesn't like oral so it's irrelevant to me for the foreseeable future.

Hawkins003 · 20/02/2023 21:00

When I tried it with an ex, her wrists started to ache after a bit, but she's also similar that she prefered to focus on one activity at a time

Hedjwitch · 20/02/2023 21:05

Her wrists started to ache?
What.....how...?

Hangupsrus · 20/02/2023 21:14

Haven't enjoyed this once, also agree with pp's that you can't focus on giving properly whist receiving, it has to be one or the other for me. The rubbing belly whilst patting head reference is spot on

PermanentTemporary · 20/02/2023 21:42

@Hedjwitch after pondering this and mentally drawing diagrams, I think they must have been stacked vertically. I would always do side by side myself.

Isthereanicknamenotused · 20/02/2023 21:47

69, giving it or receiving it - all revolting!

Whatliesbeneath707 · 20/02/2023 21:58

@supercatlady if you are going to Google reverse cowgirl, look for Jenny Keane explaining it. She has an amazing little tweak to make it work & to make it more comfortable. She demonstrated it (clothed!) on an Irish chat show, so there will be a video floating round somewhere.

Iloveabaconbutty · 20/02/2023 21:59

I really love 69. And I'd love to do it with DW a lot more than we actually do which is maybe once a year. Simultaneous orgasms are amazing (although it's been a few years now since that happened!)

But DW just doesn't enjoy it that much - which is why it's interesting hearing the same thing and for the same reasons that she gives from the female perspective on all the previous posts. And it looks like the couple of chaps who have posted aren't keen either! Am I unusual being a 69 enthusiast?

Having said that we do regularly enjoy giving and recieving oral, taking turns.

margegunderson · 20/02/2023 22:12

It's nice. Has to be woman on top tho

OnceRuralNowUrbanbliss · 20/02/2023 23:15

I appear to big fan. Keeps on happening in my new romance.

QueefQueen80s · 20/02/2023 23:17

Nah no thanks, can't concentrate and feel self conscious with belly flopping near their face 😂

HaggisBurger · 20/02/2023 23:18

Same for me. Like both giving and receiving oral but find it distracting and not as good a position for me to give oral.

EmilyGilmoresSass · 20/02/2023 23:27

I used to hate it. But I did it man on top with the last man I was with and I was converted because he loved it. Don't know if it would still be the case with someone new!

PermanentTemporary · 20/02/2023 23:31

Have found some jenny Keane stuff but not about reverse cowgirl... I think the angle of my vagina isn't standard and it's not a position that works either for me or the person attempting to connect with me!

Hawkins003 · 20/02/2023 23:36

Hedjwitch · 20/02/2023 21:05

Her wrists started to ache?
What.....how...?

She was on top of me, and using her hands to hold the top half of her up while taking care of business

Circumferences · 20/02/2023 23:36

I was extremely fond of 69 with my ex, I actually get so turned on giving head, 69 really does it for me. My current dp isn't such a huge fan though he prefers to do one thing at a time! I don't feel anything is missing having said that sex is still amazing.

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