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Does anyone actually enjoy 69?

101 replies

Swimawayyy · 20/02/2023 20:08

I’m not really sure I’m a fan.
Partner sort of got himself into position where it was clear that’s what he wanted but I couldn’t angle my head properly and it all just felt a bit awkward. I said afterwards that I wasnt really a fan. I love oral- giving and receiving, but can’t seem to give enthusiastically whilst receiving as I can’t focus - if that makes sense.

anyway… just interested to know what others think 🤔

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AlwaysTheGoodGirl · 20/02/2023 23:45

Absolutely agree with those saying it's too hard to concentrate with both things going on at the same time. Taking turns is much nicer.

Jomummy1013 · 21/02/2023 00:01

I'm not a big fan. I just find them excruciatingly embarrassing, it makes me feel so awkward, I don't know why!

LifeunderMarrs · 21/02/2023 00:20

AbsolutePixels · 20/02/2023 20:24

It's rubbish. Like trying to pat my head and rub my tummy at the same time: too much going on!!

This!!

SwordToFlamethrower · 21/02/2023 00:27

No I hate it. Can't get off in that position, feel embarrassed and terrified of farting

YouWithoutEnd · 21/02/2023 00:42

No, I’d rather do some face sitting and sort him out afterwards!

VanillaSox · 21/02/2023 02:28

PermanentTemporary · 20/02/2023 21:42

@Hedjwitch after pondering this and mentally drawing diagrams, I think they must have been stacked vertically. I would always do side by side myself.

😂

Ruthy45 · 21/02/2023 02:31

I'm into taking turns.

OrlandointheWilderness · 21/02/2023 07:17

God I love it. We do it a fair bit, DP really gets off on it. He's definitely better at me when it comes to keeping focus, but it turns him on that I'm distracted 😂 always ends well.

fatherliamdeliverance · 21/02/2023 07:25

Not massively. The idea of it is sexier than the feeling so it's nice in that way. DP and I both agree that it's more of a heat of the moment thing than a source of fulfillment

StarlightLady · 21/02/2023 08:24

l enjoy it for short periods of time every now and then, but l do find it harder to focus. I also tend to clench my teeth prior to climax, which could have the potential for complications.

MrsBrollie · 21/02/2023 08:54

I love it, and so does my husband! I’ve never been into being choked but I love to gag on him as I orgasm, it usually ends with me squirting.

we have a noticeable height difference so some common positions don’t work for us but 69 works perfectly for some reason

PinotPony · 21/02/2023 12:42

It's not top of my list for the same reason as many others... the inability to concentrate on two things at once. That said, new play partner really enjoys it so I'm happy to do it, usually with me on top.

Mumtumtastic · 21/02/2023 12:45

Lol I read the title and thought it was an age related post! Was going to reply and say am sure 69 is a wonderful age for many! 😆

Stroopwaffle5000 · 21/02/2023 13:44

I can't enjoy receiving whilst I'm giving. I need to concentrate on one or the other. I hate giving BJs though so it's not really a problem anymore 😁

Fruititty · 21/02/2023 13:52

I think it must depend on the partner. With my first boyfriend I would orgasm almost as soon as we started we just seemed to fit together like that. I still enjoy it but it has never been as spectacular as with him. being the right body length to fit really helps.

Johnisafckface · 21/02/2023 16:49

My ex loved it. I thought it was ok, but maybe that's cause he sucked at giving oral. 😂

Whatliesbeneath707 · 21/02/2023 17:45

@PermanentTemporary if you look on Instagram for JK she is hellojennykeane.
The reverse cowgirl demo is a video from 21st June 2022. She looks like she's made the blokes day by doing the demo on him!
Not sure if this link will work for it:
www.instagram.com/reel/CfEwmrMAgDO/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

PussGirl · 21/02/2023 17:47

I always worry I'm going to bite him if I come - really puts me off Grin

Trexer · 21/02/2023 17:52

We use it as foreplay occasionally. I love it and so does he but it does feel slightly awkward. Getting into the position makes me laugh thinking about how silly it must look. I couldn't do it for long, that's why we use it to warm up. We also forget it exists sometimes so it isn't an every day occurrence.

LadyGardenersQuestionTime · 21/02/2023 18:01

Too awkward - if one of us is in the right place the other can't reach - and too distracting.

Shannith · 21/02/2023 18:05

Whatliesbeneath707 · 21/02/2023 17:45

@PermanentTemporary if you look on Instagram for JK she is hellojennykeane.
The reverse cowgirl demo is a video from 21st June 2022. She looks like she's made the blokes day by doing the demo on him!
Not sure if this link will work for it:
www.instagram.com/reel/CfEwmrMAgDO/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

That's actually hilarious

Whatliesbeneath707 · 21/02/2023 18:14

Shannith · 21/02/2023 18:05

That's actually hilarious

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Jenny is definitely worth a follow on Insta. She gets up to all sorts! At one point she got her dad to bring a suitcase of sex toys to her in London, as she needed them for a workshop. He's been dubbed "the vibrator mule" ever since. Luckily he didn't get stopped in customs!

PilarPalabundar · 22/02/2023 00:42

Female and love a 69, man on top

Ruthy45 · 22/02/2023 00:53

I just can't see the appeal with anyone wanting a dick in their face and half choking to death. It's a pass from me 😷😂 🤢 yep it's confirmed, I'm gay. Thanks for the confirmation folks 👌

PinkButtercups · 22/02/2023 00:56

I did until someone I was seeing tried to go on top and I very nearly got a face full of hairy arse crack. He scarred me out of liking it anymore.
Safe to say that was the end of that.

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