Does size of cock matter?

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Please can you settle a discussion between my fwb and I? What do most women class as big, normal or small size cock? And what do you prefer?

I am a long-term MN member and reader, particularly of this board, but only an occasional poster.

Thanks I'm advance for your thoughts 😊

Had guys from 4-9 inches. One of my best lovers was the 4 inch one it was very passionate all though he could never make me orgasm. That being said he was amazing at oral and was a heavy cummer which is a real turn on for me. I have however only orgasmed from a handful of guys (about 4 out of 80ish) and the smallest was 6.5 inches. The other 3 was 7.5 to 8.5 inches.

I have had a lot of guys over 7.5 inches but I have never had good sex with most as they think they are stallions and just ram it in hard which isn’t pleasant (most of the time) 😂. I do think most average size guys try harder to make love and that makes sex feel better.

But a side note is they have to have a nice looking one, I’ve had a lot who was around the 8 inch mark and they had ugly looking c0cks or long saggy foreskin which is gross too.

No one is suggesting women tell men their cock is too small though are they. So why are you comparing it to a man insulting a woman to her face?

Many many many women like big cocks. That's just what it is.

Yes appearance matters as well. My wife prefers circumcised (or at least a "svelte" foreskin like mine haha). She's petite so smaller cocks are more comfortable for her, but she told me she's been with a few that were just way too big.

Oh side note that girth is super important. I mean coke can size girth is what it’s all about for me lol.

I'm tight down there too but I don't think it's true that a small vagina equals preferring a small cock. The vagina stretches and lubricates during arousal to accommodate the penis. I can't speak for every woman but my penetrative orgasms come from being filled to the point it's slightly uncomfortable, then that builds to an orgasm. I think some can be too big but no one is preferring small over at least average, unless there's some kind of medical issue.

would you like that if a man said that about the size of your bust.

Shallow.

Totally shallow, I agree.

I have always felt a connection with a guy and fallen for him before knowing what dimensions he is. And whatever he turned out to be, I just loved him.

If I was going into a shop and choosing my perfect guy off the shelf or, better still, having him custom made 😊then yes, I'd make him somewhere around 6.75/7 inches and nicely shaped and with medium-sized testicles and he would get hard very quickly but also be happy to ejaculate quickly too because that is something of a compliment in my perspective.

That's not what the my two long-relationship guys turned out to be (well, apart from the getting hard and not being able to hold back) but... I made the best of it, loved them, was content.

Being smaller, technically and structurally speaking, is not as nice for me as a bit bigger. It's actually more likely somehow to hurt me. But I couldn't hold that against someone I loved.

This is a very thoughtful response, putting things all in a bit of perspective. I also may have misunderstood my petite wife’s definition of “smaller”. She told me 7-8 inches is best once things get going, just not “shockingly” large 😂

ahaha if 7/8 is ‘smaller’ then I think your wife is living in a charmed landscape.. a bit like Goldilocks having it just right and the 3 bears never coming back and getting cross

so I suppose 6.5 would be getting towards shockingly small for her. Gosh she is leading a blessed life 😅

Yes for me it does small just doesn't do it at all for me my dh is a good size and we have a great sex life yes small works for some but not for me

Just for clarification are we talking inches or centimetres here 😀?

The usual measurements are small, medium and liar!

I've gone from 8.5' to 6' in the last couple of years, Personally, I couldn't care less now although i did struggle to begin with. Can't say I've had any complaints!

I'm assuming you meant from 8.5 inches to 6 inches. It looks like feet the way you've written it - which would have been a struggle for anyone....!

Haha yes!

I've never had sex with, nor even seen a penis above, I think, 5 inches. Last long relationship was with a man with around 3.5. I suppose I don't have much to compare to. I've never experienced a foreskinless one either

Only 5% of men globally have penises over 6.3 inches. I can understand the attraction but they're quite thin on the ground, relatively speaking. My partner is happy with my average penis but like some women, likes the idea of a bigger one.

Haha it seems so! When she gets really turned on being fucked in bed she will share a few of the past details (with encouragement from me). I recently found out there were a lot more of them than I had assumed 😂

Personally doesn't matter to me! I've had big , I've had small.

Big is NOT nice. It's painful. I'm talking 8inch +

5/6 inch is just nice

@EnergeticTigerDad this turns me on too! Although DP would hate that ugh

tbf i'd be happy with just one nice one : ) I haven't been with a lot of guys, i had one for a longish time (13 years) and we still have sex now whenever we see each other, but i was his possession, and he really wasn't the one for me. So I'm still looking! And i reckon about 6.75 inches hard would be good. But I am open to all variants.

I expect you'll be offered a selection now after that..!

😂😂yes i realised, too late!! : )

nothing wrong with a selection though.. so long as there is a key, and I can choose the one i like best 😌

13 years is a good long time, and it’s hot that you still have sex whenever you see each other, but still good to be open to all variants while looking for the right one. My wife hadn’t had much experience before meeting me (she was a virgin but it turns out she had done a lot of oral sex). She had couple of wilder phases later when we had broken up and when she was on a study abroad program. She only shared this recently and it’s made for some very hot sessions together.