Does size of cock matter?

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Please can you settle a discussion between my fwb and I? What do most women class as big, normal or small size cock? And what do you prefer?

I am a long-term MN member and reader, particularly of this board, but only an occasional poster.

Thanks I'm advance for your thoughts 😊

Sorry, I disagree. Current DH is 7 or 7 and a bit but not as hard as when he was younger and ex was bigger and better. I've had lots of experience with 8/9 and even 10 inces 10 was too long - ideally around 8min to 9, thick and hard - of course the bloke has to be fit and cleant and nice and polite and say the right things etc.

We are all different

I find I need bigger as I get older! DH is about 3 inches and no longer hits the spots :(

Some of my best orgasms were with a short chubby man with a very wide cock. Not long, but I felt gorgeously full as soon as it went in - just dreamy

Unfortunately DH isn’t very thick either x

@KirstyMac74 No longer hits the spots? Has he shrunk surely 3 inches was never long enough to hit the spots?

And girth is important but even a girthy 3 incher would still be too small IMHO

Hi, no, he’s always been on the small side. It always took a bit of extra effort for me to climax but the last few years I tend to just sort myself out later x

I think some of you are measuring in centimetres not inches!!!

@LlynTegid I did say OLD tape measure!!! Definitely inches. 😂🤣

Yes, I was definitely talking inches.

3 inches, sorry about that
DH is 7 to 7.5" but no where near as hard as when he was younger.
Thickness is average re dH length is above slightly.
DH is a Cuk and get me guys bigger than him and I find 9 inches and thcik and hard the best and even better if circumcised not sure why but the English guys that have met me/us, the majority are not - so DH has tried a few Turk young men and I think the circumcised helps with extra sensation or just looks better

AS I'm older I'm a lot bigger down there inside and outside and DH and his toys and meets via FS have contributed to my size or it could be old age.

Lube, lots of lube always makes things better along with the right size and fit man

Agree wide is just the best. The sensation of being stretched is exquisite

I think you should change your username to not so shy Amy 😂

Girth is very important but still requires some length, a fat 3 incher won't do much good!

Tell me about it - a skinny 3 inches is useless 😟

3 inches erect?! No wonder you finish yourself off later. Have you had much bigger in the past then?

Yea before I got married I had bigger guys x

I've only skimmed this thread so excuse me of this has already been discussed.

I have no experience of "big" dicks, and I'm just wondering whether they aren't generally as hard as smaller, or at least average sized ones?

I've lots of experience. How hard it feels really depends on other things than size - some large men have thicker skin and lots of foreskin and this can make a harder penis feel less so. Small and circumcised can feel very hard.
The worst are pencils imo - really hard and really skinny. Kinda painful

@Estherpologist in my experience the hardness and the size aren't connected.

Guy inches = cm 😂

@kinkyMom...you are probably right 🤣

Whenever this discussion comes up I have told both my husbands about the time I had sex with a man who was fairly normal length, but quite slight. And smaller than both of them...

The sex I had with that man was revelatory for a number of reasons:

The act did not revolve around me contorting myself to accommodate his penis, I am quite petite myself and he fitted me perfectly.
He knew what he was doing. With his penis. With his hands. With his mouth etc.
We clicked.
And a slightly odd one... the condom actually fit him and he was much more enthusiastic about condom use and initiation than other men his age were at the time. I realised the majority of men I have slept with were probably too big for an average condom and this has been problematic at times.

The sex was better not in spite of the fact that he was smaller but BECAUSE he was a bit smaller, and some other reasons.

I do hope my husband realises I have told him the story to make very clear that I have very little appetite for giant cocks, or indeed sitting around laughing about pencil dicks, which is horribly objectifying behaviour and improves sex for nobody imo.

I agree. I also know women that complain that tampons are difficult to insert and have no known medical issues. So I certainly think that there is a body that fits everyone. Some people just have to work harder than others to find them.

Until I joined MN fairly recently I hadn't realised
that this was such an issue. The huge number of contributions clearly indicate that it is. I was brought up with the notion that "size doesn’t matter" when clearly it does, even having an impact, in some cases, on the future of a relationship. I've always assumed I was about average and not thought any more about it.

Reading some of the posts here it seems I might be a bit bigger than average (having been prompted recently to measure myself for the first time since I was about 16! - I'm 56 now). I've never had much in the way of comment from the women I have been intimate with during my life so have never given it much thought.

As with many things on this and other MN topics it's been an interesting eye-opener! That's all I wanted to say really.

For myself I didn't know it was a rare thing for the condom to roll all the way down on a man. 😳 My first and only sexual partner it did and I just thought that was normal. Then I heard my girlfriends a few years later talking about how one of them slept with a HUGE man and the condom fit perfectly rolling all the way down and they've never seen a man this big. I just quietly listened keeping that information to myself. I didn't know what I had till that day! 😂