Does size of cock matter?

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Please can you settle a discussion between my fwb and I? What do most women class as big, normal or small size cock? And what do you prefer?

I am a long-term MN member and reader, particularly of this board, but only an occasional poster.

Thanks I'm advance for your thoughts 😊

My partner suggested some from of cuckolding so she could have sex with other men, she would be an ExPartner before you could count to 10, but again each to their own

My DH is keener than me but I’m coming round to the idea. Especially if the guy is big x

I think the idea of swinging and sharing, threesomes etc is very high risk that they can go wrong. I wouldn’t risk it if I was in love, it’s like gambling with your future. It may be fine and one day backfire on you both.

But hey I applaud anyone who can brave enough and have a strong enough relationship to do this kind of thing. And I’m no prude I’m hyper sexual

good Luck, is he going with other women as well, ?

I hear you. No idea how he plans to find a willing guy so may never happen x

No he just likes the idea of watching me do it x

@KirstyMac74 You might find someone on mn...no harm in sending a pm😋

There's good things in each category but for me if I'm turned on by their hands I'll be turned on by their cock, and it's not all about size - shape, hair colour vs skin colour and general look matter.

I would count over 7 or so as large I think, 5-6.9 as medium. There is something quite special about the cervical contact from a really large one and I'm glad to have experienced it. But I like to be taken from behind and giving oral, both quite tricky with a larger one imo. Dp is a medium + which is very fine, no complaints. But I've been with men a lot smaller and had an excellent time.

I think that is generally the idea of permitted cuckolding, is that the new man or men are larger than the man being cuckolded. Not much point having a mainly or purely sexual tryst with a man with a small one!

How have you found it with men with less than 5", say only around 4"?

I’ve never experienced a large penis, is it the stretching that is the best part?

With smaller ones to be fair I've done more oral (both of us) and roleplay, tying etc. It does feel less intense when doing specifically PIV, though from behind feels good. It means I'm keener to expand the range of activities. I've not experienced smaller than about 3.5".

In my experience some women love the fantasy of having their partner see them with a man with a big cock.

A big penis is all well and good but as ever, it is down to the man to understand how to use it best in the particular scenario!

Thanks for all your replies and discussion. It's as i thought, some women love big cocks, some like average and some like small. It's mainly down to knowing what to do with it and some kind of connection.

Give me a man with an average cock who actually enjoys pleasuring women and making her cum over an arrogant twat with a huge dick who thinks he is gods gift to women, and that thrusting in and out for 2 minutes with no lube or foreplay will be enough to have her screaming in ecstasy.

Unfortunately in my experience most men, big or small are not very good in bed anyway so just give me a vibrator 🤣 on a serious note, size does not matter AT all.

Men, don't be disheartened by some of the responses on here and think most women want big cocks because we don't. There are definitely lots of us who don't care or prefer smaller

There was a program on Channel 4 a couple of nights ago called, "My Massive Cock", several blokes and women were interviewed for the show and one woman was a "size queen" who's current guy was packing 9" and wanted to try something bigger, they invited a guy with 10.5" to join them. If my partner wanted to try a bigger dingle, I would say, "go on then, but pack your bags beforehand".

Most of the men wished they had smaller todgers as they couldn't find a female who could or would even try and one was considering reduction surgery. Another lad who was very slightly built had been refused a job at interview because of his package, their reason was they thought he was in a state of erection and saw this as inappropriate behaviour. The same lad could get his hand around his wrist, but not around his tool.

www.thesun.co.uk/tv/20216095/channel-4-massive-cock-penis/

I'm pleased I'm classed as normal.

Not again

I saw a car yesterday with the number plate

XXI INCH

The size of the guy who made a cast of his Rodger was huge it must be so hard for him to find anyone who would want to sleep with that huge c**k 😧

As a bloke (an average sized one!) I'm left wondering how much variation there is between blokes in reality? Most women have been up close and personal with at least a few, but most blokes have only ever seen another erect one in porn (which I'm assuming is far from average!).

I get that there are some out there with micro penises and some with 9" monsters, but how rare are they in reality? Are 9 out of 10 blokes average (lets say around 5.5" to 6.5"), and it's quite rare to actually come across someone outside that range? Or is the spread of sizes pretty wide?

I have to admit the penis reduction surgery photos had me wincing on behalf of men.

But yes they were too big!

I must admit that it's the bigger the better for me. Iv accommodated a 9' balls deep and it was amazing. I love the idea of a 10' inside me.

@altmember The variation in erect penises is certainly much less than in flaccid ones in my moderate experience. I think though for me the difference between quite small size changes is quite noticeable. Not in pleasure- that's about how aroused I am, not about them - but it does feel different.

but at least I can't tell if a man is packing a 4" or a 7" in advance

You could just ask. The upside is if he lies then you have every right to kick him out when you see the truth and not have to sleep with a wee McDonalds chip

I still don't feel right asking in advance, but would be good to know in advance, 4 inchers are just too small for me. Sorry boys! But those ones on My Massive ..., are also too big!