Is bigger really better?

[Frankie20018]

Having a debate with my bf. He thinks all women prefer a man with a bigger penis (What qualifies him to know this I don't know) I personally don't think it matters. What do you all think?

Certainly small doesn't do it for me

@Frankie20018 bigger is better, anyone that says otherwise is trying to cover for them self or their man lol

I'm ok with any size, there are always fun options. i know a great guy with quite a small one, might be 3 inches, but he is literally the only man I've ever met who can do dirty talk and it's amazing. Hes also really confident which is fab - i had a long term partner who was probably average but very small when flaccid - no problem but he'd been bullied about it and he was so bruised by that it was awful. Im bigger than average so there is a certain feeling in penetration which only a cock with more girth will give me - another lover has 6 in girth, astounding. But I absolutely love giving oral sex and a smaller cock would defo be my choice there.

No. DH is hung like a donkey and I'm very small. It's tricky at best.

I jave just started seeing someone who is on the small size, I was a bit worried when I discovered his size bit I jave to say it's been some of the best sex I have had. I am quite small and have a tilted cervix so quite often (in the past) I jave found sex painful and often bleed, this has limited to positions I can do, with this guy I can do almost anything without it being painful and still get a lot of pleasure despite his size. Size isn't everything, well not for me anyway.

Oh dear god, no. Smaller is ALWAYS better.

Longer is better than fatter. Fatter just means more pain.

If you get cystitis like pains after sex, try non-latex condoms. I'm currently trying this. Still get vestibular pain even with small cocks but I'm not getting the stinging pain when peeing after.

I suppose if you're one of the few who orgasm during vaginal then you might want a larger size? Maybe? Does it help?

Furious I agree, I get the same. Though yesterday my small guy made me bleed. I have a tilted cervix which makes it even harder to take bigger. I like the fact I can do a lot more with a smaller guy.

Seems as ever we all differ. Larger within reason is always better. Larger and circumcised was amazing but I have to rely on fond memories now unfortunately

YES

Do you prefer to be fingered or have sex?? that's what it boils down to and no they don't make up for it in other ways... Watch out for that fib lol

Scorpio, what?! Don't understand your meaning.

Anyway I prefer oral to either fingering or PIV!

bigger is definitely better imo

Have you really just revived a 3 year old thread just to say that you like big dick? 😂🤦‍♀️

How did you even find this thread lady pink? What were your searching for 🤣

I agree!

Iv probably had far too many so seen all different sizes from 3" to 10'. My boyfriend is just over 7' with a slight curve and it's the best sex iv ever had.

I have not read everything here, but it is a shame that part of it is man v woman.
It should be more light hearted.
When I am by-myself I put one one finger inside, after a few minutes I use two fingers side by side and enjoy making myself cum. Since this thread started I tried three fingers and a lot of lube. Not very comfortable and did not continue. Partly,I can't reach where I need to.
Any of you with a woman lover Can you take 3 of her fingers? She will get deeper than one can oneself.
Imagining 3 male fingers inside makes me shudder.

Bigger is definitely better but not too big. My ex had a small one and it was very disappointing, made not want to have sex with him.

Yes even with a sleeve, I just find I'm in the mood to have sex less when my partner is small and tend to umm self satisfy.

No!

I see one or two posters quoting lengths but no one saying about girth.
Two of my fingers together are a little less than 1.5inches, at my wedding ring. A man's fingers would be a little more. This is fine and enjoyable but I really would not like much more. (I think)!
Any other comments?

A little input from the engineer 😂:

The girth is the real issue here. Longer are usually thicker to and therefore better. Of course you need some minimum length to do stuff but to long is bad. The thing is that what we really are doing is to rub the G spot and/or the clit and it doesn’t take a long one to do that. If it is to long we can’t put the pressure on the clit and that is most often the reason for the orgasm. When it comes to the G spot girth is important.
So the perfect size in my opinion is 5,5-8” long and as much girth as possible. I’m 6,5” and a bit above average girth and I would not ask for more length but rather even more girth.

@Sens
Agree re girth. I enjoy a man being long enough to reach my cervix, a girth that means my vagina is really stretched is what gives me a vaginal orgasm...don't even need my clit touching (although very nice)

Bigger is better, but not too big, that’s for sure, nice ones are always good to get your hands on.

i mean boobs here !

Iv found 7 to 8 inches is perfect. Girth helps but it's the feeling of his balls right up against my vagina, feeling so full up that makes me cum and cum