Serious question (sort of BDSM/watersports related)

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I've name changed for this and I swear to god this is a genuine question.

Man I've been seeing told me that he enjoys urinating inside a woman when erect. I'm very open minded and not judgmental about sex so I don't really care about that in the sense that I'm not "horrified". I've done a bit of googling but not found much on this subject.

Has anyone ever done this? ( or I suppose more accurately, had it done to them?
Is it painful?
Is it safe?
What happens when he is finished? Does it all run out?

The idea of it definitely doesn't turn me on at all but I'm trying to work out whether this is something I am willing to experiment with. Even me in my open minded way find this a bit very off-piste as it were and can't imagine this is a good experience for the woman. I can't help thinking it must be dangerous or unhealthy.

how can he urinate when erect?

I've not seen it. He says he can and you have to prep for it by ensuring his bladder is really full. He says he's done it a lot with other partners. I don't know as I've said I've not seen it; it's what he's telling me.

Firstly, I didn't think it was possible to urinate when erect (or it's really bloody difficult at least! ) And secondly, this really doesn't sound too healthy to me, can he not just wee on you instead?

afaik its a physical impossibiity

• you have to prep for it

bad wording !! he has to prep for it obviously! sorry.

Is it really physically impossible? He sounded very definite about it and pretty convincing that this was "a thing" of his.

Speaking as a male, it is possible to pee when erect, it’s difficult though.

What Jack said... From my knowledge of penii, urinating even with a firmish semi is unpredictable at best.

For me, I'd be worried about infection (though I belive wee is sterile when it comes out, warm wee trapped in your nethers for 12 hours might not be so great - even if you shower you're not going to shower your cervix).

So it's not good enough to want to urinate ON a woman, he wants to urinate INSIDE a woman? I know fetishes know no bounds, but I wouldn't be cool with a man who wanted to degrade a woman in such a peculiarly intimate way.

Won't be painful as it won't come out at great force. I think it's perfectly safe (but I'm no expert on what is and isn't safe so I may be wrong) It will be running out before he's even finished so I'd get your waterproof sheets on if I were you

*believe

I just asked my husband if it's possible to wee when erect, he says it depends if it's 'piss-proud' or not . Yes, he's always been a silver tongued barstard.

Anyway, I suppose it must be possible for your bloke- not sure I'd be happy with it, sounds like a health hazard to me

Dh says of course a man can wee with an erection.

I would be concerned that he has urinated inside many women. This would tell me that its without protection?

Some people can pee whilst erect but the bladder is blocked when a man is being... Stimulated, so I don't think he could pee whilst having sex with you. He could probably be inside you and pee. That doesn't sound so fun for you.

What happens when he is finished? Does it all run out?

I've never tried it, but I'm 99.999999% certain that the answer to this is yes. Where else would you think it would go?

What's in it for you? Sounds very degrading.

It's the safety thing that bugs me. I mean sounds to me like this would have to be a condom free experience which brings it's own issues but even assuming all that was cleared and good to go - also I think that it might have some force so it could hit the cervix and be painful/unpleasant.

What I'm wondering is if this is a real thing and if anyone has done it/had it done to them and can say for sure it doesn't hurt/feel nasty/gives you embolisms?

I totally accept this is fetish of all fetishes but generally that kind of thing doesn't really upset me as i said, I wouldn't judge him for it. It maybe I just don't want it.

Where else would you think it would go?

Swill around inside fermenting to put it bluntly. That's my fear if it's high enough up.

Sorry but watersports related made me laugh

Missed point of thread

i think it could be a question of pH. not sure what pH urine isbut that sloshing around inside is not going to be great.

saying that i seem to remember it is something we have tried in the past. i think he had to be semi hard if i remember correctly. don't think it really worked for us although dp always liked watersports.

Tell him to put a condom on and piss all over himself. I'm not sure about this, strikes me as a power control type degrading behaviour. If you're not going to get any enjoyment from it I'm not sure it's worth being coerced into.

I have to pee every morning with an erection. Mind you, I'm grateful for that erection, stops me rolling out of bed.

Ok thanks everyone. It maybe that I'm going to have to go in search of a more ...welll less here ... website. A bit scared but think that's the only way to find out a bit more info.

Startastic - just to be clear there is no coercion at all. He's telling me something that does it for him that I've never done that he wants to try with me if I'm willing.