Serious question (sort of BDSM/watersports related)

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I've name changed for this and I swear to god this is a genuine question.

Man I've been seeing told me that he enjoys urinating inside a woman when erect. I'm very open minded and not judgmental about sex so I don't really care about that in the sense that I'm not "horrified". I've done a bit of googling but not found much on this subject.

Has anyone ever done this? ( or I suppose more accurately, had it done to them?
Is it painful?
Is it safe?
What happens when he is finished? Does it all run out?

The idea of it definitely doesn't turn me on at all but I'm trying to work out whether this is something I am willing to experiment with. Even me in my open minded way find this a bit very off-piste as it were and can't imagine this is a good experience for the woman. I can't help thinking it must be dangerous or unhealthy.

Maybe try Fetlife for your questions op. I'm sure there will be some people clued up on it.

I've tried general watersports but internally would be a hard limit.

See, I think I've finally realised what my problem is.

If you, OP, as the woman, get off on someone degrading you (and, let's be graphic here, using you as a toilet) then I guess that's fine. Not something I could ever relate to, but fine.

But it's not that, is it? Your partner gets off on using women as toilets, and not just by pissing on them, but pissing in them. I'm not sure where the fetish ends and the misogyny begins. It's the ideology more than the actual act that I find very questionable.

Yeah. I know that people into fetish insist it's completely harmless and doesn't indicate any harmful underlying beliefs about men and women but personally, if a man wants to hit me, spit on me, call me horrible names or excrete on me I'm taking that as a clear sign there is something not quite right about how he's seeing me. It's also a big fat nope.
I also think there is something worrying about women who enjoy and seek out all the above.

You're entitled to your opinion LadyStark. I don't know why I enjoy some of those things but it goes way back. No mommy/daddy issues, misandry, self esteem or mental health problems. I just appear to be wired up slightly differently and thinking back I've always been.

Would I change it if I could, yes. It would make finding a suitable partner so much more easier as I do not not do casual relationships and need to fully trust someone in a committed relationship to be able to let them do that sort of thing. I'm very on guard for potential abusive twats.

I do find the op's situation far too extreme for me, bodily fluids do not float my boat at all but she needs to make her own decision if she could handle that or not.

I'd stick to letting him pee on you in the shower or you on him.

I would be worried if he has really full bladder just how far up the wee would go. I mean if he was a 'comfy' fit then he would probably block it coming out