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Intimidating teacher

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chillie · 27/01/2022 20:58

My son came home yesterday and told me that 8 boys including him in yr 10 were locked in a classroom with and by their chemistry teacher in clubs time until all the rubics cubes were handed in. After they were handed in she proceeded to shout at them that they had been disrespectful. When asked by one boy what was it that he had said or done to be disrespectful she unlocked the door and told them to all leave. She didn't answer him.
Today the same 8 boys were told by the head of year and an assistant headteacher that young female teachers can be intimidated by them and they should be more aware of how they behave.
This is in a super selective grammar school. All boys my son included can behave badly but I really feel that this was inappropriate to say to the boys. They are 14, all black or Asian and nobody shouted at her, swore or approached her. Surely if you are intimidated by teen boys then you don't take a job at an all boys secondary school?
My son who is not in her form tells me that other boys say she often locks the door, can't control the class and sometimes cries. I feel worried about this teacher, it doesn't sound like she is coping. I think she needs help. No teacher should need to lock the door, I would expect the teacher to have enough authority that the boys would not dare leave until given permission. Am I expecting too much?

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namethattunein1 · 29/01/2022 10:45

@StrongCoffeAvalanche

There is a simple solution to this. The teacher stops giving up her free time to run the club. She'd get more time back which will help her mental health and ability to cope. The group of boys will learn that this club was a privilege that they have now lost because the teacher was stressed out for whatever reason. Maybe this could change how they see teachers a bit and modify their behaviour in general (although I doubt it).
First sensible response I've read here...
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