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OMG top totty wants to come and meet me..

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Littleblue · 06/02/2010 14:23

Hes a facebook friend,we got chatting yonks ago through someone else..it rolled into a daily exchange eventually which heated up when i was single again recently..now he wants to come and see me,im scared to death,hes 8 years younger than me and seeeeeerious totty,i mean gawgus..but im overweight and 40..and terrified!
Anyone know where i can get emergency liposuction??

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groundhogs · 07/02/2010 11:20

Well????? how'd it go then?????

SPILL!!!!

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 17:20

Oh! lol,sorry didnt see..i am just getting over the flu..so its not happened yet,daily email/txt exchange is sizzling still..i really want to see him,but really dont too,talk about tied up in ruddy knots!!

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nikki1978 · 09/02/2010 17:23

Has he seen your picture on Facebook? If he knows what you look like already there is no problem. Anyway if you get on well already being a bit overweight shouldn't put him off and if it does he is a twat anyway.

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 17:26

My friends are saying pretty much the same tbh..i dont think they realise how self conscious i am,ive seen a picture of his exe wife,shes tiny,stunning..and younger.
He only knows what my face looks like...

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 17:31

Hes a bloody hoot,so at the very least,we will have a blast...im relying on that i think :-)

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nikki1978 · 09/02/2010 17:33

I wouldn't worry about it. If he likes your face you are all set Just relax and have fun. Are you a bit overweight and just self concious or are you very overweight?

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 17:37

im a size 16-18,massive bangers lol..im relying on dressing the mantelpiece up so he wont notice how well padded the rest is :D

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fortyplus · 09/02/2010 17:53

Look... I'm a respectable married woman who until recently was size 16 and someone with a seriously gorgeous body took a great interest in me! I was amazed... and flattered... but had to say errrr... have I never mentioned dh of 25 years?!

Go for it, girl - he loves your face and your personality and that's what he'll notice. Do not mention your weight. REPEAT... Do not mention your weight. As soon as people start going on about how fat they are - that's when people notice! I've done it myself. People start wittering on about being soooo overweight and I think 'Oh yes - so you are!' I han't noticed till they pointed it out!

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 18:00

I wasnt planning on giving him stats..well,ive given him one and i quote "sweet lord,now THATS a stat"
You have a point..the problems in my head,i know this really...i was chatted up on one occasion by a younger man..but he said 'hello whats your name etc..then 'i bet you could teach me a thing or two" i fell around laughing,im officially "old" now i take it
I thought i might find an opportunity to see if this one thinks Niglla Lawsons a hot milf...

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fortyplus · 09/02/2010 20:54

Enjoy! 8 years is nothing - he wants you for your compatible mind but likes the way you look too. That's a great start! Keep us posted

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 21:04

hes just messaged me...hes 'addicted to me' apparently
Il keep you posted ...

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fortyplus · 09/02/2010 21:08

Play it cool! Just friendly at first... you know what I'm saying!

Make sure he isn't going to be one of those who gets too intense too quickly - that always ends in tears. Either they lose interest and you get hurt or worse still you lose interest and they turn into a pain in the bum!

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 21:13

oh i know..its delicious..we havent even spoken on the phone yet..its been like a dance for the last few weeks,we are matched on pace,humour..and music amongst other things..
I know the 'intense too quick' type only too well,no worries,my exe was the pain the bum you might be referring to

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fortyplus · 09/02/2010 21:55

Ooh how exciting, anyway! I'm sure he'll be lovely

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Littleblue · 09/02/2010 22:22

God hes killing me...im loving this [grins]
Il get the jump leads if he turns up real,hes a 6ft 1 inch black belt btw...

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Littleblue · 12/02/2010 17:00

good grief..hes announced hes in love with me

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AnyFucker · 12/02/2010 17:27

oh dear

NomDePlume · 12/02/2010 17:33

nutjob stalker

AnyFucker · 12/02/2010 17:35

LB, come on love, you know better than this

don't you ?

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Littleblue · 12/02/2010 18:36

course i bloody do..but he lives in wales,cant i play with him for an afternoon??

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Littleblue · 12/02/2010 18:37

hes a great mate online,but the love things a dead dodo

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AnyFucker · 12/02/2010 18:38

you can do what you like, LB

whether it is a good idea or not, is a different matter

play ? err, don't get the webcam out

< cat's bum >

BelleDameSansMerci · 12/02/2010 18:39

I think you should ...

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Littleblue · 12/02/2010 18:40

PMSL@ ...rofl..what a delight you are anyfucker,i meant really play,not flash the loot on cam,nowt in that for me,i want a piece ;)

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Littleblue · 12/02/2010 18:43

good god,lust has turned me into a 'geezer'

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