Have just found out dp has been 'spying' on the woman next door!

[voyeur]

with binoculars no less..... I feel sick .
What should I do??

do you think he has taken a fancy to her? is she attractive??

confiscate the binocs

but how bloody embarassing that she has seen him - for me and him

we need to know, is she attractive???

My take on this (based on previous experience ), is that he's seen something which has made him curious.......probably fairly innocent.

Well, not attractive at all, in fact I've lost count of the amount of times dp has called her a dog - but very suspicious now of course

start again voyeur, she was looking over at your house? With binoculars? Where was she looking from and what would she see? How did he notice and why would he go upstairs to see her? Was he getting some sort of sexual kick out of it? How did she seem to feel about it?

The fact that he has mentioned her many times, in whatever way , makes me suspicious tbh

no he had binoculars.

btw men only say this over and over if they like the woman.

she...the stupid neighbour silly!

Her kitchen window is directly opp our spare bedroom window.... she is always looking out (as you do, from the kitchen window) and I understand from him that he saw her late one night, and thought he'd see what she was up to. I think he did get a kick out of it - he said it was the fear of getting caught

thought it was him with them??? now I'm confused

omg I'd be gutted. Can't imagine what I'd do tbh.

Yes it was dp with binoculars, not the woman next door - she just looks out of her window normally, all the time so it looks like she's watching us

i dont understand why you would need binoculars to see someone nextdoor at night.
if she had the light on in her kitchen, surely you could see enough if only next door??

She's probably dreaming of a movie star like me

sorry not trying to make light. I hope you're going to be ok.

he sounds like a fool, who doesnt look out of their kitchen window, it's normal. Spying with binoculars, creepy. Sorry

that's why I think he was up to something more sinister that just looking - like you say, he could see enough normally without the binoculars. I know for a fact that a while ago she made a big deal of letting us know she had washes in the kitchen whilst her bathroom was being refitted and she had no bath etc

Yes, sorry I agree it is creepy.

Imagine how you'd feel if you caught a male neighbour doing it to you?

do you think there is something going on between them then?

was just going to say that lou

god knows - don't know what to think anymore

oh dear, now it's piecing together.
Do you think she might have a thing for your dp?

am v grateful for no neighbours windows overlooking me, and 7ft hedging all around

I mean in the sense of them both knowing what's going on and encouraging it?