My DH says he will leave unless I 'get rid' of bump # 3

[sydneyhousewife]

what a mess! I've recently moved back to Australia after 11years in the UK with DS (4) & DD (2). My English DH was supposed to follow in a few months, though still had not committed 100%. Since arriving in Oz I've discovered I'm unexpectedly pregnant at 40, about 7 weeks now. I was hoping for some support from DH, instead he is adament he does not want this child & in fact will leave us if I continue with this pregnancy. Am I mad to think I can do this on my own??? All my family are here but my parents are worried about the workload. I don't know what to do...............

hi lilysmummy, unfortunately I lost the baby last week (this thread has been running for a while). It had died when I went for my scan so I ended up in hospital for a D&C. I had no intention of getting rid of it (it even had a name!). I think you may be right though, he wants me to break it up

im so sorry sydney, bless its little soul, so sorry you have to go through all this stuff by yourself, but god is with you, and as for your h, you can do better and your kids deserve better, what is he going to do evertime the going gets tough, threaten to leave you?? you have to seriously think about that and if he does come to oz, will he make your lives miserable because he doesnt want to be there or doesnt want to be with you. hoep you are well and stay strong love.