Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Should I be concerned about my partner’s colleague viewing my Facebook profile?

107 replies

Awiane · 31/08/2026 16:27

Hi guys , need advice so my facebook setting is digital creator meaning i can see who view my profile , even if we arent friends , a girl from my partners work comes up almost every time , a few years back there was deleted messages between them to ? Should i ask her why does she keep viewing my profile or am i just being silly as it a public platform

OP posts:
Willreturnforsure2 · 01/09/2026 13:46

Toodarktooearly · 01/09/2026 10:29

Because she's trying to catch out a husband she doesn't trust and blame a woman who has no idea she's being reverse stalked?

What a depressing way to live

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/09/2026 14:45

Awiane · 31/08/2026 20:38

You may not see them as i reported them and get them deleted , look i am a reasonable person. I have came on herefor advice and tbh i have had alot of crappy comments , people are so so judgemental

You've deliberately chosen a type of profile that forces your posts onto random people's feeds and records if they either look at something you have deliberately chosen to appear on their feeds or just leave playing because they have absolutely zero interest in the inane babble because their phone is on mute and they can't hear that it's autoplaying.

It's the internet equivalent of jumping up and down in front of somebody saying 'look at me' and then complaining that they might have glanced in your general direction.

Awiane · 01/09/2026 18:20

Ive blocked her , thanks to the people who gave genuine advice

OP posts:
Willreturnforsure2 · 01/09/2026 18:25

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Awiane · 01/09/2026 18:36

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

You can still block people who are not friend with you

OP posts:
Toodarktooearly · 01/09/2026 19:01

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/09/2026 14:45

You've deliberately chosen a type of profile that forces your posts onto random people's feeds and records if they either look at something you have deliberately chosen to appear on their feeds or just leave playing because they have absolutely zero interest in the inane babble because their phone is on mute and they can't hear that it's autoplaying.

It's the internet equivalent of jumping up and down in front of somebody saying 'look at me' and then complaining that they might have glanced in your general direction.

Is it Meghan?

Awiane · 01/09/2026 19:55

Toodarktooearly · 01/09/2026 19:01

Is it Meghan?

?

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page