Should I be concerned about my partner’s colleague viewing my Facebook profile?

[Awiane]

Hi guys , need advice so my facebook setting is digital creator meaning i can see who view my profile , even if we arent friends , a girl from my partners work comes up almost every time , a few years back there was deleted messages between them to ? Should i ask her why does she keep viewing my profile or am i just being silly as it a public platform

I have work friends who are male i no about their wives kids etc some are also single , but im not on checking their socials every other day . I no this isnt just her thats the problem

Yes or had

Then that's the problem. She's the other woman and is obsessed with your dh and your life. The one you should be talking to (or hand divorce papers) is your dh.

I totally snoop on friends and colleagues’ partners. I’m just nosy and judgmental. 😂 I’m not wanting to bone any of them.

Yes we all have but not all the time surely?

How often are you posting?!

Does that matter ?

Seriously?

of course it matters!!! If you post 5x a year and she has a ganda… what’s the big deal

if you are posting daily? Hourly? Then very weird (both you and her!)

I would post 1 or 2 times a week , thats ok if u think its werid for me .

What sort of thing?

Ive already said that in pervious posts

I don’t have enough stuff that I would think others would be interesting reading 2x a week! Hence why asking 😆

Sorry to hear that

Everyone can see who views their stories. Don’t put public stories if you don’t want them viewable by anyone? 🤷🏻‍♀️

I dont mind that they are viewable , its one person that keeps viewing

This isn't about a privacy issue, why do people keep bringing this up 🙈

Yes it is weird if she isn't a friend of yours. If she is seeing every story you post then she is frequently checking your profile, why would she be doing that? It could be innocent (she is just nosey) or there could be more to it.

Well it does mean that no weird exes stalk me!

I hardly use FB but surely there’s a setting that means people who aren’t your friends can’t look at your stories?

Im not suprised

Thank you i suppose!

As a Fb novice can someone enlighten me whether this is a possibility?

Op just likes the drama. Any actual helpful advice is just ignored. About 5 people have already told her to block

Ah ok. Got it. One of those 😆

If you look back on the messages she was saying to me eatlier in this post you will see why i am being th way i am with this person

I looked back and I see nothing about why you haven’t blocked her? This is surely the first thing any reasonable person would do?!