The baleful one here is you. You're stamping about calling people man haters ffs, AND you were unnecessarily unkind to@AlmostAJillSandwich, who described a rather horrendous situation where her partner was having sex on her body without the slightest care for her pleasure or agreement.
You seem very exercised at the idea that men are often shit partners and they often come here whingeing about lack of sex, and women here are SICK of it.
And people HAVE made comments that suggest OP's wife owes him sex in this thread:
"Most 36 years olds, in a romantic relationship, would not be remotely satisfied with having sex around once every 18 months in the last 5 years."
That was yours, I believe. Ergo, you think you are owed sex. I mean, if that's all that counts to you, fine. I suppose that when your partner is struck with illness or depression or age or exhaustion because they're in the middle of kids/life, you'll be fine leaving for new dick/pussy. For most people, real relationships involve much much more than sex.
Lets see what else there is.
"some people have very low sex drives, yiur wife could be one of those. I would talk to her to see if she’s willing to see a doctor as coukd potentially be something hormonal that can be looked at. "
Why didnt this PP suggest that OP take androgen blockers? Then he's freed of his lust, right? Why does OP's wife have to be medicated?
"Anything you do will never be enough, and she clearly couldn't care less about your happiness."
This one is clearly seeing OP's wife as a meanie who is withholding access to her vagina.
"I think it’s highly unfair of her to expect you to stay in a sexless marriage "
Hmmm, *unfair, that means that OP took something away that belongs to OP. ie her vagina.
"There are so many women on here who think it’s perfectly reasonable to ‘retire’ from sex when they’re still comparatively young, and expect their partners to accept it without complaint."
Another one who thinks OP's wife should be fucking as often as OP wants. The audacity of telling women how often they should fuck.
"I think you’ve been very patient tbh"
Yes, goddamn it, OP's wife is a shitty bitch who has deliberately taken away her pussy, just because she's a meanie.
These are ALL angry rapey attitudes that have no understanding that NO ONE IS OWED SEX.