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Would you be annoyed if your partner lied like this?

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luluxxx · 14/03/2026 09:11

So my partner is lazy
I do everything in our house
Washing ,cooking etc
He doesn’t even so much make a cup of tea.
I tell him all of the time he needs to pull his weight but falls on deaf ears.
Last night I told him again ,hoping for a change.
He said he would and this morning as we are out to the races today …he would make me breakfast in bed.
Woke up this morning,asked him to make me a cuppa and he said he couldn’t be bothered to do breakfast but he knows he’s lazy and he said “I’m sorry for being so lazy,I will give you £50 to treat yourself to a new top or something instead of making breakfast and to say sorry for how I’ve been lately.
So I said that’s fair enough
Got up ,made breakfast and said “oooh il see if I can find a nice top online for my girls night soon”
He replied “you would really take £50 off me for making breakfast ..wow…I was joking obviously”
”il make breakfast next weekend”

Would this bother you?
I feel stupid and a bit silly now

OP posts:
WallaceinAnderland · 15/03/2026 14:26

These threads are so obvious.

Omgblueskys · 15/03/2026 17:49

Don't see op coming back ,
Hopefully she got her answer here

thetinsoldier · 15/03/2026 17:54

Oh, OP, he’s horrible. You deserve a lot better. What’s keeping you with him?

OhCobblers · 15/03/2026 18:53

I cannot believe anyone would stay with this absolute loser.
Honestly OP raise your bar.

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