Cockrings - dodgy?

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been with bf 2 few years , don’t live together . On 2 occasions he has accidentally pulled a cockring out of his pocket, I will attach pics. First the black and most recently the pink one , these are stock photos as close as I can get to what they looked like.

the black one I didn’t say anything just let it go , presumed he uses them for masturbation . He never uses one with me .

but the pink one I questioned. He got defensive and said he was going to use it with me and changed his mind and put it in his pocket (he was not wearing his hoodie while we were having sex) I wasn’t angry or anything and was calm when I asked him but he accused me of gaslighting him (???) he was then in a mood for the rest of the day .

so I’m not sure what to think . It’s more his reaction than anything else . In the past I’ve also found used condoms to which he claimed ‘posh wank’

He sounds rank. Carrying cock rings round with him? 🤢

As usual first comment nails it 🤢

You have to ask?
does he have erection issues?
If not then I’d bin him. He’s using them on someone else, not for masturbation. If that’s all it was for he’d have declared that rather than the ‘I changed my mind’ line.

He never has any ed issues no. The pink one especially doesn’t look like something a man uses on his own I agree
its giving me the ick

Porn sick limp dick. Likely explanation is he has them as insurance in case he goes soft while dtd due to his issues.

Posh wank is not a thing in rl
only on here !

He's bi. Uses them with his make partners would be my guess.

I’m not gonna lie . This has crossed my mind.

He "accidentally" pulled a cock ring out of his pocket. Twice 😃

I was going to say maybe he wanted to use them with you but got embarrassed, but seeing you’ve found condoms, I think he’s also seeing someone else, a posh wank is rubbish, I don’t believe any man does that.

Oh God just dump him, what kind of person carrys cock rings around in their pockets? And the same goes for the condoms. Whatever reason he has for having those things on him, it's not going to be anything good x

I think the pink one looks like one for male use tbh. The balls that hang down are probably supposed to vibrate on his, erm, balls that hang down. There’s nothing attached to it that would pleasure a woman.

The fact he carries them around in his pocket is frankly bizarre, especially if you don’t use them together.

If my mind was going to leap anywhere, it’d be towards sex workers.

His excuse for having them in his pocket were he’s just shoved them in there when tidying up. I’ve asked him how he’d feel if he found used condoms etc in my house and he says it’s not comparable.

I also don’t buy the ‘posh wank’ excuse either . I think he’s hiding something . Even if just through embarrassment although I’ve told him I don’t care what he does on his own as long as no one else is involved .

Hahaha oh god I didn’t know it would show the photos on the main screen in all their glory , whoops .

I’m just honestly intrigued by the fact that he’s more than once pulled a cockring out of his pocket and claimed he put it in there while tidying. Trying to think of anything I’ve ever put in my pocket while tidying, and might have forgotten about — maybe a stray earring? Some Lego? Small change?

He’s gay.

Is that a cockring in your pocket or are you just glad to see me.

How does the black one work? My mind is boggled…

me too!

Ha! That’s reassure me at least 😂

Gay xx

Well obviously I had to Google it to get the image and it looks like it sort of cups the balls as well as holding up the penis. I know more about this shit than I ever wanted to now .

Can't understand why people are saying he's gay/bi. Is the pink ones bally pieces not for a ladies pleasure?

Well … again as I had to google to get the image . This particular article is called the ‘ball banger’
we’re all learning things today aren’t we ladies?!

I swear that it's not normal to wank off into a condom?! Surely that's a myth perpetuated by men who cheat?!

It's bizarre to just walk around with sex aids in your hoodie pocket. I mean if you want to use it just use it in bed with someone or while wanking. But why have it on your person seemingly at all times? While going to Aldi or to work or your Nan's for tea?! And he clearly has several.