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Mummy issues bf

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Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:41

my partner has a diff bond and things I see and Sruff my heads having thoughts I’m nervous to talk bout it but if anyone would like to hear or know and give advice be grateful

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Wiglio · 08/10/2025 00:47

I have no idea what you are on about

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:48

Wiglio · 08/10/2025 00:47

I have no idea what you are on about

It says mummy issue bf my partner and his mum

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LifeSurvior · 08/10/2025 00:49

Come again🙄

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:49

LifeSurvior · 08/10/2025 00:49

Come again🙄

Thanks

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Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:50

Im new here and nervous sorry

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 00:50

What's a diff bond?

LifeSurvior · 08/10/2025 00:51

That's okay, do you want to try again?
Your post really didn't make any sense x

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 00:51

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:50

Im new here and nervous sorry

People generally explain the reason why they're looking for advice.
You haven't done so.

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:54

LifeSurvior · 08/10/2025 00:51

That's okay, do you want to try again?
Your post really didn't make any sense x

he says about roles with mummy things in sexual ways and they way descriptive he constantly messages her like if she was his gf like I mean it’s like that calls her kid too like don’t get it say things that like it so descriptive it’s happened and my head just gone cos if it like he has to message asks where she is says stuff on phone like your bad u are and just not like normal mum n son says he feels more a friend

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 00:55

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:54

he says about roles with mummy things in sexual ways and they way descriptive he constantly messages her like if she was his gf like I mean it’s like that calls her kid too like don’t get it say things that like it so descriptive it’s happened and my head just gone cos if it like he has to message asks where she is says stuff on phone like your bad u are and just not like normal mum n son says he feels more a friend

This doesn't make sense either, I'm afraid.

Full stops would help, not to mention complete sentences.

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:57

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 00:55

This doesn't make sense either, I'm afraid.

Full stops would help, not to mention complete sentences.

I’m sorry my nerves are getting better of me

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StrawberryWater · 08/10/2025 00:58

So he's enmeshed with his mother, got it.

Explain what you mean by the sexual bit.

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:58

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 00:50

What's a diff bond?

says he feels more the parent at times and looks at her more like a best mate and talks to her like a gf the comments etc is like how he is with me

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Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:59

StrawberryWater · 08/10/2025 00:58

So he's enmeshed with his mother, got it.

Explain what you mean by the sexual bit.

Roleplay stuff like says scenarios that are so descriptive u think can only be that descriptive if happened

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SnowFrogJelly · 08/10/2025 01:00

Eh

Lurkingandlearning · 08/10/2025 01:01

Why do you want a boyfriend who has an ambiguous relationship with his mother?

StrawberryWater · 08/10/2025 01:02

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 00:59

Roleplay stuff like says scenarios that are so descriptive u think can only be that descriptive if happened

Gross.

Just bin this creep and move on.

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:02

Lurkingandlearning · 08/10/2025 01:01

Why do you want a boyfriend who has an ambiguous relationship with his mother?

Well I don’t know that for sure that why I’m looking for advice

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Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:03

StrawberryWater · 08/10/2025 01:02

Gross.

Just bin this creep and move on.

But people say men do like to say mummy and do role play but it’s acting acts and scenarios so u see why my heads a mess

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VivX · 08/10/2025 01:04

End things and find someone who has a more normal relationship with his mother.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 01:04

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:03

But people say men do like to say mummy and do role play but it’s acting acts and scenarios so u see why my heads a mess

Do you mean that he calls you mummy while you're having sex?

Lurkingandlearning · 08/10/2025 01:05

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:02

Well I don’t know that for sure that why I’m looking for advice

You seem sure of what you have posted, it makes you uncomfortable. That is why you should end it. You are unhappy with him

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:06

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 01:04

Do you mean that he calls you mummy while you're having sex?

Yes and messages

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 08/10/2025 01:07

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:06

Yes and messages

Well why didn't you write that in your OP?

Missy09 · 08/10/2025 01:07

Lurkingandlearning · 08/10/2025 01:05

You seem sure of what you have posted, it makes you uncomfortable. That is why you should end it. You are unhappy with him

Just wanted advice etc cos I know some ppl have said all men like the mummy thing but this extreme and they sleep in same room living room he 23

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