Sex for a year ehy won't he kiss me

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I already know the answer but I have been having sex with a guy for a year. He will not kiss me or touch my body. Literally afterwards throws a towel on me n I leave. I am ok with FWB but I feel shity everytime . He usually only last maybe 5 minutes.

It’s horrifying to hear there are men out there that treat women like this, you need to put an end to his abuse of your body, he is destroying your self worth.

Why would you let someone treat you like that? i would tell him to sling his hook.

You've not been having sex, he's merely been using you as a cum receptacle.
Sex should be fun, pleasurable and mutually satisfying.
Its aftermath should not leave you feeling like a cheap hooker.

Ditch this dude, and raise your standards by several country miles.
Your current bar is so low, it's touching the dust on the floor.

Why on earth did you let him do this more than once?

Isn't that how prostitutes operate? No kissing because that's for relationships. I suspect he is in a relationship where he gets his intimacy and you are just available for sex and he uses you as such. Why are you letting him do this?

FWB

Umm, where are the benefits for you??

It sounds beyond awful. End this farce for your own sake. He's horrible.

A year! A bloody YEAR!!!

Seriously, why put yourself through that for five minutes of thrusting. You can’t be getting anything out of it sexually. Let alone how shit he’s making you feel by treating you like a prostitute.

Forget him and the reasons for his behaviour for a minute.

The only behaviour you need to analyse is your own. Why have you allowed this to continue for a year. What on earth are you getting out of it that you couldn't do (probably better)!with a sex toy? Why let someone you're not even in a relationship with treat you like shit?

😮 just stop it now!

Doesn't even sound as if the sex is good which just might make you tolerate being treated like this. Rubbish shag, rubbish manners and over in 5 minutes. What exactly are you getting out of this situation?

Are you in love with this guy to tolerate shit sex and being treated like a prostitute?

Honestly a vibrator would be preferable - at least you’d get some pleasure and wouldn’t need a towel

sounds like the middle east men i have met
nothing to do with porn just dickheads

You're barely a fleshlight.

Oh, OP. That is really grim. Please raise your bar, you don't deserve to be treated like that.

Blimey, just echoing everyone else really, but why have you put up with this for a year?!

Tell him to just use his hand in future. You cannot possibly be getting any sexual satisfaction out of this situation.

This man is not your friend. You're basically his wank sock.

Kick this one to the curb OP

Even with a FWB you deserve better.

So does OP if she's willing to put up with this for a whole year

Sex should be fun not an ordeal that leaves you feeling like shit.
Bin him and his issues.

The only reason to have casual sex is it makes you feel good
There are so many better arrangements available to you if you are open to casual
None of your needs are being met

He has no emotional connection to you. Kissing is about love and passion.

He sees you as a body to fulfill his needs and that is all. There is no love or respect for you.

ditch this pig.

WTAF

I've had great kisses from men I spent a single afternoon with. You don't have to put up with this.