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Sex for a year ehy won't he kiss me

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MUSHAIRES · 04/12/2024 11:09

I already know the answer but I have been having sex with a guy for a year. He will not kiss me or touch my body. Literally afterwards throws a towel on me n I leave. I am ok with FWB but I feel shity everytime . He usually only last maybe 5 minutes.

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MUSHAIRES · 27/12/2024 01:46

Thank you 🥰

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MUSHAIRES · 27/12/2024 01:51

Yea because I didn't know he had a GF until I seen her post with him in the picture so fucking thank you very much!!!!

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MUSHAIRES · 27/12/2024 01:55

Why wouldn't I tell her? So she would continue to trust him and believe his lies? Fuck that . Think what you want i did the right thing

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Adam148 · 27/12/2024 01:57

Everyone has an opinion no one has the answer

MUSHAIRES · 27/12/2024 01:57

It's funny I get negative reactions because I found out HE had a GF wow do you people even know WTF you are posting? Why is that my fault lol must be women posting negative stuff it's ok

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Adam148 · 27/12/2024 01:58

P if I said I have a big one you will always say it's probably small

Adam148 · 27/12/2024 02:09

Maybe you just need someone different

RedHelenB · 27/12/2024 08:25

MUSHAIRES · 27/12/2024 01:51

Yea because I didn't know he had a GF until I seen her post with him in the picture so fucking thank you very much!!!!

Not so meek and mild now OP so why on earth would you put up with his shit all that time unless you were hoping he'd pick you over her?

Tillow4ever · 27/12/2024 12:40

RedHelenB · 26/12/2024 22:00

She didn't have to tell the gf about them either.

You don’t think the GF deserved to know he was shagging someone else on off too?

MUSHAIRES · 29/12/2024 06:18

Like I said i didn't know he had a GF until I seen the post with him and her. This was Thanksgiving. !!! So how would I be hoping he would pick me over her? When I am the one who ended it i am the one who blocked him. So please stop commenting 🖕

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RedHelenB · 29/12/2024 06:20

Tillow4ever · 27/12/2024 12:40

You don’t think the GF deserved to know he was shagging someone else on off too?

I don't think that's the reason OP did it.

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 29/12/2024 07:12

Well done for reaching out. Like you say, you know the answer. If it feels wrong then it is wrong. Let that be the last time he does this (you allow this). Block him and think carefully who you share your body with going fwd. people need to earn the right to share your space. Demand some respect. 2025, new you!

MUSHAIRES · 30/12/2024 03:05

Thank you and yes I am more upset with myself for allowing this for a year. But now I'm heading inside and out

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NotaCoolMum · 30/12/2024 04:04

MUSHAIRES · 04/12/2024 11:09

I already know the answer but I have been having sex with a guy for a year. He will not kiss me or touch my body. Literally afterwards throws a towel on me n I leave. I am ok with FWB but I feel shity everytime . He usually only last maybe 5 minutes.

You should be asking yourself “why do I keep having sex with a guy that won’t even kiss me?”.

ParsnipPuree · 30/12/2024 10:12

So happy you've done it op. Hopefully (unless I've missed something) his girlfriend will dump him soon, no one deserves this piece of scum.

Don't beat yourself up. I stayed in an abusive marriage for years because I had young kids. That was 20 years ago and I'm happily married to an incredible man. I look back and feel like shaking myself for not being stronger. But then I realise I managed it and that's the main thing

Never again for you. Next time it will be someone who adores you- or no one at all. Either is fine.

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