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I found an engagement ring!!!!!

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 12:00

After almost 7 years together and hoping that I'd get a proposal... I've just accidentally found the ring!!!!!!!! Putting his flaming underwear away, stuffed at the back of the drawer! Of course I looked... tried it on... it's exactly what I'd wanted and is my size! I'm overjoyed! But annoyed I found it too!

I can't tell anyone of course... I have to keep it all in! But... ARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! I'm just so freakin' excited!!!!!!!

I really hope he does it soon... he knows I don't do flashy, public things. So I'm hoping it's romantic and just the two of us, or just our family (we both have children from previous relationships). He knows me so well though so I'm sure it will be lovely. He's a teacher, so I'm guessing something might happen over the summer holidays 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞. Or perhaps it could be later this year near my 40th. I'm guessing it won't be for my 40th though, he wouldn't do it then. But he might do it around that time.

Sorry for all the exclamations marks! I'm a little excited as you can probably tell. Grin

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Mummyofbananas · 03/07/2024 20:21

Beautiful ring!

13Bastards · 03/07/2024 20:23

Ooooh how exciting OP! You are going to be second guessing everything now waiting for the moment! I hope he doesn't keep you on your toes for too long!

Also why are men rubbish at hiding stuff 😂 mine always hides stuff in his pants drawer which obviously I put his boxers into as the downtrodden woman I am so I have to train myself not to look, shove on and shove closed 🤣

protectoroftherealm · 03/07/2024 20:29

ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 20:07

He's home, and I'm pulling my best poker face ever! I'm wafting around playing my best Taylor Swift love songs 🤣🤣🤣🤣. He's making dinner. Oooops. I mean he's making his. I'm making mine. Coz I'm independent like that 🙈

Hope you're not letting him listen to your music. He should pick his own music.

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 03/07/2024 20:37

How exciting- ignore anyone spoiling your happiness. The ring is gorgeous- I love something different than the norm! We’re doing everything backward - got married last month after 30+ years together and now think I need an engagement ring. Really looking for something unusual too - whether it’s £100 or £1000 I don’t care.

CoffeeNeededorWine · 03/07/2024 20:39

Omg you put your partner’s underwear away and he looks after your children?! . Anyone would think you are in an equal relationship, it must be truly awful to be in such a caring relationship where you do stuff for each other.

I have obviously had a nosey at your ring, it’s bloody lovely!

Congratulations, it sounds like this is very well deserved after the previous relationship. Your hubby to be, sounds like mine, a keeper! We also share responsibilities too and are very happy!

Now, don’t forget to listen to all this good advice. It seems like you’ve made an excellent start by making separate teas. I hope the children are also cooking for themselves . 😂

RadFs · 03/07/2024 20:49

How exciting. Congratulations

ThisMustBeMyDream · 03/07/2024 20:49

I'm quietly sniggering to myself at your posts! Of course I don't want him to notice and ask what's so funny 🙈. Must stop!

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Bettergetthebunker · 03/07/2024 21:14

This happened to me exactly at seven years as well. It was hard to contain my excitement and shock. I in the end did tell him many years later that I had found the ring.

Incakewetrust · 03/07/2024 21:19

I love this so so much!!! I can't wait to hear all about the proposal 😁

VeryConfuzzled · 03/07/2024 21:22

@ThisMustBeMyDream Congratulations! I love the ring. It’s very pretty. Some of the posts made me roll my eyes and want to clutch my fake pearls and cry out, “Won’t somebody please think of the children!” Joking aside, I reported a few of the nastier posts. Hoping for an update soon with a picture of that lovely ring on your finger.

I found an engagement ring!!!!!
MaidOfSteel · 03/07/2024 21:23

The ring is so pretty, OP! How exciting for you. 😊

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poptypingchef · 03/07/2024 23:41

Future congratulations OP - looking forward to the official announcement 🙌🙌🙌

As another one with jewellery experience, I’d you get your nails done take it off** as ultraviolet light can bleach the colour out of amethyst. The ring is beautiful as is your joy!! 🥰

**and put in your bag, you don’t want to lose it 😂

Joystir59 · 03/07/2024 23:43

I hope he proposes soooon!!!!

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 04/07/2024 18:39

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 03/07/2024 18:38

I put away my husbands boxers as I do all the laundry in our house. I don’t see anything wrong with that, he does other things that I don’t do, such as all the gardening. Doing things for each other is completely normal and healthy.

I also put mines underwear away, sometimes, he does all the ironing.
We are a couple, a team. Thus is a normal relationship!

PinkFizz1 · 04/07/2024 18:51

Following!

ThisMustBeMyDream · 05/07/2024 20:25

Mindlessly scrolling on Facebook, when DP notices I'm scrolling through rings (don't even know why, they just popped up!). He says, why are you looking at rings? I said oh you know, might see something I like. He said, (with rising panic in his voice) I thought you saw a ring you liked... I replied, well... there are always other options out there 🙈.
Poor guy, I could see the worry in his eyes 🤣.

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CowTown · 05/07/2024 20:28

I thought you were coming on here with different news. Don’t tease us like that!

BirthdayRainbow · 05/07/2024 20:35

That's mean to do that to him. Quite cruel actually. Especially when you shouldn't have looked, opened the box, tried it on and posted about it. Then complained you're annoyed you did all that.

TheShellBeach · 05/07/2024 20:35

BirthdayRainbow · 05/07/2024 20:35

That's mean to do that to him. Quite cruel actually. Especially when you shouldn't have looked, opened the box, tried it on and posted about it. Then complained you're annoyed you did all that.

Oh FGS, lighten up.

BirthdayRainbow · 05/07/2024 20:43

TheShellBeach · 05/07/2024 20:35

Oh FGS, lighten up.

I'm fine thanks

GretaGip · 05/07/2024 20:47

Lovely ring!

Suffragette colours 😍

Goingncforthisone · 05/07/2024 21:10

ThisMustBeMyDream · 05/07/2024 20:25

Mindlessly scrolling on Facebook, when DP notices I'm scrolling through rings (don't even know why, they just popped up!). He says, why are you looking at rings? I said oh you know, might see something I like. He said, (with rising panic in his voice) I thought you saw a ring you liked... I replied, well... there are always other options out there 🙈.
Poor guy, I could see the worry in his eyes 🤣.

Why would you do this? He might take it back thinking you have gone off it?

ThisMustBeMyDream · 05/07/2024 21:29

I know him too well - he won't take it back! He knows I liked it! It's not like I'm showing him something different!

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Alltheyearround · 05/07/2024 21:43

OP you minx! I though you had down on one knee news.

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