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Anyone into tantric sex?

123 replies

Newthings · 31/12/2023 14:30

Just what it says. Met someone new and he's mentioned it. Anyone any experience of this? I'm assessing whether it's out of my comfort zone!

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caringcarer · 31/12/2023 19:55

Stresa22 · 31/12/2023 15:29

It will mean he has a very small penis and wants to distract you from that.

😂😂😂

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/12/2023 20:03

'I can't feel you.'

'It's Tantric Sex. You don't sustain an erection, it's all about the kundalini energy'

'Have you come already?'

'No, it's Tantric Sex. I don't have to ejaculate, as that wastes my kundalini energy'

'You've gone soft.'

'No, it's Tantric Sex, it's merely time for you to worship my lingam for three hours with your finger up my arse until I roar at you like a tiger. You can rub yourself on a pillow if you're that desperate to give up your sacred energies afterwards'.

'Ummm...tell you what, Keith, let's just keep this platonic from now on'.

financialcareerstuff · 31/12/2023 20:16

OP my sense is a lot of people dating these days express an interest in tantric- especially men... and what they are meaning is 'occasionally I like slow massage' or 'I'm deep and meaningful'

Very very few really do it properly or make it a lifestyle exclusive to normal sex!

Original poster
Newthings · 31/12/2023 20:41

NeverDropYourMooncup · 31/12/2023 20:03

'I can't feel you.'

'It's Tantric Sex. You don't sustain an erection, it's all about the kundalini energy'

'Have you come already?'

'No, it's Tantric Sex. I don't have to ejaculate, as that wastes my kundalini energy'

'You've gone soft.'

'No, it's Tantric Sex, it's merely time for you to worship my lingam for three hours with your finger up my arse until I roar at you like a tiger. You can rub yourself on a pillow if you're that desperate to give up your sacred energies afterwards'.

'Ummm...tell you what, Keith, let's just keep this platonic from now on'.

I can't stop laughing at this.

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porridgeisbae · 31/12/2023 21:04

@Newthings I did know a guy who learned some very useful sexual stamina techniques through it....

So you could tell him you just want the normal sex but hopefully he'll have learned a thing or two you might enjoy.

Indifferentchickenwings · 31/12/2023 21:13

I wouldn’t knock it
my go to self pleasure video is a yoni massage

im not sure who’s an expert or not 🤷‍♀️
and if home made versions are ok
but Some of the techniques are hot

Soldaret · 31/12/2023 21:23

Crying 😂😂 @NeverDropYourMooncup

Gatekeeper · 31/12/2023 21:33

Ooh OP...this'll be you in your bedroom this time next week!

Anyone into tantric sex?
Gatekeeper · 31/12/2023 21:33

Note that Trudi has lots of candles lit so she can forgo the cardi

Jamjaris · 31/12/2023 21:39

I wonder if Sting hums Every breath you take to Trudie

MiddleagedBeachbum · 31/12/2023 21:47

Indifferentchickenwings · 31/12/2023 21:13

I wouldn’t knock it
my go to self pleasure video is a yoni massage

im not sure who’s an expert or not 🤷‍♀️
and if home made versions are ok
but Some of the techniques are hot

Any links please?! Ha!

VeronicaBeccabunga · 31/12/2023 21:52

I've heard tantric sex is pretty much like booking a plumber.

You stay in all afternoon and nobody comes.

AuntySueDoesntGiveAShit · 31/12/2023 21:55

Gatekeeper · 31/12/2023 21:33

Note that Trudi has lots of candles lit so she can forgo the cardi

I'd rather wear a cardi, wouldn't want to singe anything.

Gatekeeper · 31/12/2023 21:58

AuntySueDoesntGiveAShit · 31/12/2023 21:55

I'd rather wear a cardi, wouldn't want to singe anything.

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Minge singe!

AuntySueDoesntGiveAShit · 31/12/2023 22:00

Gatekeeper · 31/12/2023 21:58

Minge singe!

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🤣🤣

369damnshesfine · 31/12/2023 22:08

It seems so incredibly boring!

I like passion and excitement.

I guess it’s something that’s worth trying if you’ve been married for a long time and your sex life is non existent but I definitely wouldn’t want it in the honeymoon period.

Babysharkdoodoodood · 31/12/2023 22:22

Indifferentchickenwings · 31/12/2023 21:13

I wouldn’t knock it
my go to self pleasure video is a yoni massage

im not sure who’s an expert or not 🤷‍♀️
and if home made versions are ok
but Some of the techniques are hot

Is that you, Brian?

NaughtybutNice77 · 31/12/2023 22:39

I'm not sure you could experience tantric sex with such a new partner. My understanding is its as much about connection and intimacy and really being in or 'beyond' the moment. It takes a lot of practice and a lot of commitment, oh and a free weekend to experience it.

Indifferentchickenwings · 31/12/2023 23:06

MiddleagedBeachbum

i dare not ! Everytime this topic comes up everyone gets all weird and calls me Brian for daring to suggest it’s actually has some hot aspects to it !

Indifferentchickenwings · 31/12/2023 23:08

MiddleagedBeachbum
But there’s some hot orgasmic meditation stuff on pornhub

Dinkydoo17 · 01/01/2024 00:54

This thread. Cardis. Pmsl 🤣 🤣🤣

GentlemanJay · 01/01/2024 01:07

I practice Tantric Massage. It doesn't go on for hours. Lol.

TheDogsMother · 01/01/2024 01:41

NeatCompactSleeper · 31/12/2023 14:44

Christ no, who has the time?

Besides, unless the heating was on full I'd have to stick a cardigan on.

🤣🤣

Passingthethyme · 01/01/2024 02:15

Why don't you just try it? What's the worst that could happen!

Therealsting · 01/01/2024 02:20

Me and the Missus like to dabble now and again.