Tell me your biggest red flags when dating...

[Littlemisslonley]

I've recently realised I have seen red flags however blurred them away ....I'm on the path to learning not to ever do this again..so in light of this please all tell me your red flag thoughts and situations so I can learn from you all
Thank you x

There's a few other easy to tick off that others have mentioned - bad drinker ( meaning badly behaved) any kind of drug use, emotional; manipulation, back seat driving, nagging

Women don't mention nagging @ManAboutTown , so what is it?

Drink issues
Weed issues
Bad relationship with ex
Overly good relationship with ex ie always with them
Anger issues/snapping very early
Separated, not divorced
Bad relationship with family
Jobless
Homeless

Less so:
Stingy/not offering to pay
Not chasing/showing any enthusiasm

All these boundaries has left me single for ages! You'd think they are pretty basic.