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Am I being unreasonable?

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Xxmaddiexx · 22/09/2023 19:47

Hi, I was hoping for some advice. So I’m a teacher who has had Ofsted in this week and have been getting up at 5am and going to bed at 11pm after a full evening of work. Today (Friday) I am absolutely exhausted and have caught the school cold. I got home and went for a nap feeling awful. My boyfriend gets home and starts making cutting comments about how there’s no food in the house as I usually go shopping after work on a Friday. In fairness, there’s not a lot at all but was hoping to go tomorrow morning after a good nights sleep.
He went to the gym and has been texting me things like ‘keep up the good work’ and ‘if I was feeling like you I still wouldn’t leave us without anything to eat or drink’. It’s worth mentioning that he doesn’t drive so can’t go himself. I have tried to explain to him how bad I am feeling but it’s not getting through.

Am I being irresponsible/unreasonable for going shopping tomorrow? That’s how he’s making it seem. Please reply if you can

OP posts:
Nazzywish · 25/09/2023 17:32

Dear op having read all your updates, your in controlling abusive relationship. Kick him out.

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