Last night I came back from a friend with the kids. Went there to so my 2 kids could play with other kids and just do something for them..
For the past last week we have organised to take all the kids and some other friends of my friends to drive to Great Yarmouth. Today were the day we were suppose to go. I have told my kids father about this in got time by the way. so no excuses...
When I came home last night in time with the only car in the household so he could go to work is attitude was off.. He didn't say nothing to me.. just spoke with kids and asked them if the played and had fun.. they said YES OF COURSE!
I asked him if he still was good for the trip in the morning..
HES STARTED TO SHOUT AND WAS RUDE TELL ME OFF. LIKE WHY DID I TAKE THE CAR AND DROVE TO MY FRIEND. LIKE ME HAVING THE CAR HAS NEVER BEEN AN ISSUE..HE STARTED TO SAY ALL KIND OF THINGS THAT THE CAR IS HIS AND STARTED TO TALK ABOUT THAT I WILL NEVER DRIVE THE CAR AGAIN.. SO BASICALLY HE SAID NO TO THE BEACH TRIP TO GREAT YARMOUTH..
HE LEFT FOR WORK AND I SAT IN MY KITCHEN STARTED TO PACKING HIS STUFF.. MY SON WENT TO BED DISAPPOINTED. SAID TO ME , MUM IS NOT JUST DADS CAR IS ALL OF US CAR.. THAT BROKE ME..
I JUST THOUGHT TO MYSELF LOOK AT THIS PERSON BREAKING HIS TWO KIDS HEART TO SPIT ME TO TAKE THEM SOMEWHERE THAT I ORGANISED SO THEY CAN DO SOMETHING DUIRNG HOLIDAY..
I TOLD HIM IF THAT IS YOUR CAR TAKE IT AND TAKE YOUR BELONGINGS WITH YOU.. I RANG HIM BY THE WAY WHILST HE WAS AT WORK DURING THE NIGHT.. HE HANG UP THE PHONE ON ME..
I RANG MY FRIEND TO TELL HER WHAT HAD HAPPENED SHE WAS GUTTED FOR ME AND SPECIALLY FOR THE KIDS.. NOW THEY HAVE LOST OUT ON A GREAT EXPERIENCE BECAUSE THE FATHER TO MY KIDS IS CHILDISH AND PETTY..
AFTER I PACKED HIS BELONGINGS AND HE CAME HOME THIS MORNING HE CAME HOME AND SAW EVERYTHING OUTSIDE HE CAME IN TO SAY THAT I NEED TO BRING HIS STUFF BACK INSIDE BEFORE HE GETS REALLY MAD.. I SAID NO IS NOTHING HERE FOR YOU ANYMORE.. HE HUFFED AND PUFFED WOKE THE KIDS UP AT 6AM TELLING THEM TO GET READY. HE BACKED THEIR SWIMMING GEAR AND FEW TOWLS AND TOLD THE KIDS TO WAKE ME UP.. I DONT KNOW WHY BECAUSE HIS ELDEST SONE WHO IS NEARLY 6 HEARD EVERYTHING HE SAID.. ANY WAYS LONG STORY SHORT.. HE ENDEND TELLING OUR SON LOOK AT YOUR MUM SHE HAS LET YOU DOWN BECAUSE SHE DONT WANT TO COME TO THE BEACH.. I MEAN WTF IS THIS GUY FOR REAL???
I EXPLined to my son the best way I could and then he took the kids clothes of because is not me who let them down is HIM.....I AM SICK OF THE BAD SICKENING POISONOUS HE IS AND I WANT HIM OUT.. I ASKED him why IS HE still in the house, he looked at me and said nothing... the kids ended go to sleep. for a bit and he his a sleep on the sofa.. I DONT WANT THIS GUY IN MY HOUSE NO MORE.. I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO????? HE DONT WANT TO DO NOTHING WITH THEM OR SPEND TIME WITH THEM. I AM TIERD OF HIM BEING HERE AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME... I WANT HIM OUT!!!! I WAS HAPPY TAKING MY KIDS ON MY OWN.. BUT I FELT HIS PETTYINESS HE DONT WANT ME TO DO NOTHING LIKE I NEED A PERMISSION TO TAKE MY KIDS. SO THERE FOR HE IS GOING LIKE THIS OVER A DAME CAR... THATS TOTALLY TOLD ME EVERYTHING I KNEW ALREADY....
PLEASE HELP...