Why is dating so weird
a guy I have been speaking to all of April - couple of video dates / couple of face to face dates; he messaged me tonight ‘I am dipping my toes into dating, but do not want to dip any more toes in with you right now’ - I thanked him and as I blocking / deleting he sends me a message - ‘We can meet up and chat about it over coffee’.
I mean come on.
You are entitled to change your mind but why offer coffee.
2nd date was not as good as 1st - he went on a monologue about his work / therapy / family issues and just seemed a bit dismissive of me in general. No touching or kissing. Bit relieved he messaged me that now in hindsight.
What is the psychology of these guys in their late thirties who use dating apps? I know there are good guys out there but I seem to only meet these ones - or turn them off so much that it goes cold quite quickly.
During the second date I rolled my eyes (he did not see) when he told me he would be busy playing golf on Sunday - he had asked me last week if I wanted to do something with him on Sunday as it was bank holiday weekend and he knew I was off on Monday - so I kind of knew at that point he had lost interest anyway.