Winking

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There is a girl at work who really brightens my day. Not Pershing anything one because it's work and 2 because she has a boyfriend.

Anyway. I walk to my desk a different route sometimes to see her, she often looks towards me (she might at all that pass) often waves, acknowledges me most of the time, smiles etc. She is lovely basically, very bubbly.

The other day I walked past and she gave me a wink and as I sat at my desk I was like : 'Did she just wink at me'

Thoughts?

Doesn't matter either way just looking for a women's perspective. Won't act on anything, she just makes me feel good at the moment and it's lovely 😀

Poland I think. Interesting. She's just friendly, wanted opinions on the wink, but am just enjoying her loveliness and friendliness, nowt wrong with that.

I'm not flirting with her, I'm being friendly with her. Not going to profess my undying love just yet.

I personally think a wink is highly flirtatious, there is a confidence that the person on the receiving end will willingly recieve the gesture, or should be grateful for it.

She obviously thinks you fancy her to be so bold in the workplace.

I knew a woman who used to be overtly flirty with loads of men but what she really liked to do was then go back to the boyfriend, triangulate, and make him jealous to the point he wanted to sort these men out.

She obviously got off on men fighting over her.

What I'm trying to say is be careful, there's some nutters out there and you don't wanna end up getting tumped.

Keep it professional.

I think a wink is awful if there isn't any romantic relationship between the giver and the receiver. I've always felt slightly violated when men winked at me.