A bit of an awkward question about sex

[3catstoo]

A friend asked me a few days ago, should you let a man come in your mouth? Well I have no experience of this, DH has always warned me so I've never been caught out.

Has anyone done it or does anyone have anything to say on the matter?

Your comments would be really helpful. I feel a bit useless on the subjest.

Thanks

Um, I have never not swallowed, I thought it was rude to spit...

No, honestly it's true, but horses for courses, up to you, either is fine, any man will be profoundly grateful you were there in the first place

Commonly known as 'Do you spit or swallow?'

Lol....all I can say is that if you are happy to do it (and I am sure your DH is ok with it!) then why not???

The next question you need answered is 'spit or swallow'??

Obviously there is the question of STDs though

Would say that it is totally down to personal preference.

I'm not mad keen but I have done in the past - I can tell with DH and I get out of the way!!

I would hope that DP would not have an STD

For your friend obviously if it is a new partner, not you and DH

I have one word to say on the matter - GULP!!

I personally hate the smell of a mans sperm so don't do either. Yuk!!!!!!!

i do and dh loves it! not the best taste in the world so have a glass of ssomething handy to swiss around. bit like being at the dentists!!

Its not going to do you any harm if thats what you mean.

i was under the impression that it was full of vitamins and minerals, or is that just what oh tells me

Am with Shaniece...the smell gives me the boak..

it's full of protein

shaniece it shuldnt smell
if it does id be worried

Swallowing is also a great way to get labour started for all ladies on here they are due!

It does have calories so if you are on a diet you might spit instead...

IME it does have a distinctive smell/odour...

really okheregoes? never knew that

Not many calories though - it's mainly protein so good if you're on the Atkins diet

It does smell revolting on all the men I have been with.

There is no scientific evidence to suggest swallowing sperm can get a woman into labour either..

THere's no 'should' about it. Entirely up to you/her. And, like all sexual activities, anyone who has a strong preference either way should make this known before getting down to business.
WRT health risks, STIs etc, stomach acids destroy most things but if you have open wounds in your mouth (recently extracted tooth, maybe? Fat lip from excessive foreplay?) then the risk is slightly greater.
Of course, if you want to avoid all risk of either disease or an undesirable mouthful, use a condom for the whole procedure. You can get flavoured ones now...

But they still make my mouth feel all tingly (and not in a good way)

i think it tastes like paracetamol

rofl fat lip from excessive foreplay

Always swallow, think it's a bit insulting the go urggh and spit it out all over the sheets (apart from that time when I laughed at the crucial moment, gagged, choked and spat it everywhere).

To be honest it isn't the nicest taste in the world, but it's certainly not horrible and you get used to it (like dry martinis!)