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Red Flags

107 replies

summer151 · 10/11/2021 14:20

I just want to throw this out there to see if people think this is strange behaviour.. I Have been seeing someone for the last 2 months. I just feel things are a bit off..he has made a lot of comments about my clothes. He more or less said I have no style and photos I have shown him he says things like "what the hell are u wearing there" I got my hair cut a few week ago and he said he didn't like it and to let it grow again as it doesn't suit me.. His friends sister is a stylist and he asked her would she be able to meet me to advise me what to wear., I feel he is trying to help as I have said to him I am in a rut regards my clothes. I am a single mum to 2 primary aged kids and have been for nearly 4 years and don't have the time or money to spend on myself. I feel like I am not good enough to be with him as I am so unstylish. He said I would look better with nice clothes long hair and fake tan. He showed me a picture of his newly single friend and said how good she looked. I mean she was plastered in make up fake tan, best of clothes, boobs out etc and said how lovely she was and there must be something wrong with the fella that broke up with her as she looked so lovely.. it just makes me feel I am not enough for this man and I never will be so I'm thinking about just finishing up with him

OP posts:
TowerOfGiraffes · 14/11/2021 00:24

@TowerOfGiraffes

Wow. Aside from being very far from a gentleman he sounds utterly tastleless 😂😂 Wants a woman with "boobs out" and "fake tan"?! Gross!!!
And thinks this is "classy" or "stylish" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
TowerOfGiraffes · 14/11/2021 00:26

Hope you have ditched him, OP. He sounds like a loser.

RantyAunty · 14/11/2021 00:41

I don't know how this creep made it 2 months.

He shouldn't have gotten a 2nd or 3rd date with you.

PP have given great simple messages. Use one and then block him.

me4real · 14/11/2021 01:11

He is negging you to fuck with your head @summer151 . Please do bin him.

Send him a message and then immediately block him so he can't say anything else cruel.

Pascal80 · 14/11/2021 02:41

He is looking for a trophy doll girl and already trying to make you into one. Get shot of him - absolutely horrible YUCK

Monty27 · 14/11/2021 03:32

You could send two football teams off field with less red flags than that OP

Wildheartsease · 15/11/2021 14:17

@summer151 why not just text him to say that you have irreconcilable style-differences... and leave him to wave his red flags in the wind.

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