Just walked in on husband masturbating

[LadyLazarus20]

Hello, please help me with advice. After getting the children to sleep I have come down the stairs to find my husband wanking in the middle of the kitchen/dining room.

He says he is sorry and that it is inappropriate. My thoughts are around what if it had been one of the children. I've asked him to leave. He thinks I'm over reacting. I'm not am I ?

What on Earth did I just read?

Why was he wanking in the kitchen/diner? And why have you asked him to leave? What is going on?!

location that has upset you? Did it involve an apple pie?!

Did it involve an apple pie?!

I'd chuck him out too if he ruined dessert

Asking him to leave was a bit much. Everyone wanks.

Wanking while standing in the middle of a food prep/eating area is pretty grim though and a bizarre mental image. He could have used the bathroom or your/his bedroom. Do you think he wanted you to 'catch' him? It all sounds a bit grubby. Was he intending to ejaculate on the kitchen counter/cupboards/dining table?

So?

Leave the kitchen or leave the house? A bit of an over reaction if it's the house.

Maybe he could see his reflection in the glossy cabinets & just couldn't resist himself?

IF this is real, then yes, huge overreaction!!

@BabyRace

Was he spunking on the dinner? If not, huge overreaction.

🤣🤣🤣

Strange

Evening, everyone. Just a reminder that we'll delete anything that looks like troll hunting. We've had a few reports on this thread too and have had a look behind the scenes. The OP has been here some years and not been any trouble so we've currently no reason to think she isn't genuine.

What, just standing there? Where the hell was he planning to ejaculate???? I mean, I’d be less than thrilled with him wanking where I eat my breakfast. But yes, I think asking him to leave the house (if that’s what you mean), is a huge overreaction.

Throwing your husband out of the house for masturbating might be a slight over reaction.

I’m not surprised you asked him to leave, everyone here is bonkers. He was in the middle of the kitchen/diner that is so inappropriate, weird and gross and could have been one of the kids coming to get a drink. I’d have booted his weirdo ass out the door too. Most likely for a walk whilst I calmed down but then I think long term I would have the ick and would have to rethink things.

Normally on these threads I’m supportive of the husband’s right to play with his own penis but it’s a bit much in kitchen/diner. Had he at least done the dishes first?

Bit weird but maybe he thought you were distracted and it just turned him on to do it there?

Odd, but not divorce odd

My ex used to get a proper hard on about dinner. Was there a particularly tasty dish in view?

@LadyLazarus20 are you going to come back and answer some questions?

So has he actually left?

Did it involve an apple pie?!

😂😂😂

Was it hot out of the oven? If so he probably has a scorched bell end. What a wanker!

Yes this is real. He claims he has a porn addiction etc. It's not uncommon for the children to get up out of bed and come down. I thought that would be an awful thing for them to walk in on.

Thanks for your opinions.

Have you ended your marriage potentially or asked for some space op?