Help me leave

[Crass12]

I tried to post 3 times and every time I get to the end I choke and delete

20 years with an abusive asshole - how do you leave without losing everything you worked for?

He’s currently in hospital for at least the next 4 days

AIBU to ask if it’s worth shutting up and putting up if it makes the youngest DC happy? Or do I just dump him while he’s in hospital?

op

are you safe?

@Crass12 hasn’t updated in over two days, under the circumstances that is incredibly worrying. I sincerely hope she is ok.

op please let us all know you are ok ( even if you pm one of us) there are a lot of concerned people thinking of you & kids

@Crass12 another try to ask if you can please update us? We understand you may not be able to leave right now - nobody with their head screwed on is wanting to judge you. Many of the women here have been stuck in awful situations.

Right now, we just want to know if you are ok. And tell you we are here to support, whatever is going on.

@Crass12 Are you ok ?