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don't know what to do

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Nicole0896 · 15/06/2020 19:33

so abit of back ground, ive been with my partner for nearly 3 years. We met when we was both at the lowest times in our life, for the first year of our relationship he cheated on me 10 times with his ex. I know I should of never let him back but I was in such a bad place that I always forgave him (also got told I couldnt have children so thought whatever). Anyway after the year we both moved into our own place, i sorted my life out and got a new job and he basically moved into my flat. We started having arguments and i was ready to break up with him but then the doctors called me and told me I was pregnant so decided I had to try.

So fast forward to now. I have a 5month old and a man who is basically living in my house but has nothing to do with us. He plays on his xbox all day and night. And I mean from as soon as he wakes up till he goes to sleep. Whenever he does speak to me its either to moan at me or call me names. I have asked him to leave a few times because I don't like the way he treats me or our son but he always says no and tells me to make him.

I really don't know what to do anymore, hes making me feel so depressed. Its not like we never had any good times because we did. But I dont know who this man is anymore and don't want to spend my life feeling like this.

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Nicole0896 · 18/06/2020 15:06

Thank you, I know he was just a bad habit and I'm doing OK atm, just taking day by day

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Isthisit22 · 18/06/2020 17:31

Well done OP. you've done the right thing and will be happier in the long run

BumbleBeee69 · 18/06/2020 20:36

yes I am going to have a look at CM as he is on benifits but he does get around 1500 a month that just goes on his xbox, im lucky that I am financially stable myself so dont have to worry about that for now.

I'm sorry.. is that an accurate figure for Benefits OP ?! I'm just really surprised it's that high Confused

glad you're doing okay OP Flowers

Nicole0896 · 18/06/2020 21:34

Hes on esa and PIP, thats why its so hight

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