How much 'chasing' at the beginning of a relationship..?

[MascaraOHara]

So this guy at work chased me for a bit and showed an interest, asked me out, took me for a fabulous night out on my birthday etc

A few weeks later however it seem to be me sending the first text etc he always seems keen in his response and what have you but I am starting to wonder if I should just not initiate the next date and see if he actually bothers.

What do you think? He hasn't given me anything to go on so I have no idea if he's interested/not interested or anything..

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bugger.

It happens, MoH.

I know.. will be fine by the time I go out on Saturdya lol

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same here, cod.

dd1 is already growing into the steely scotswoman.

Right just had a text saying he's free tonight and tomorrow night so which is best for me... has he just assumed that we would see each other?!? it's not supposed to be this difficult is it.

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I agree. He left it too late. Nope, not going to play his little games of 'oh, I'll bet she'll cancel whatever plans she had'.

No time for BS.

Delete and move on.

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i used to do the chasing when i was in the high school!.....

Luckily i fancied the pants off DP and he fancied the pants off me so there was no chasing but he used to ring me whenever i wasnt with him. (we lived about 40 mins drive away from each other).

Hmmmmmm

let me see [thinks]

text him!!! [mm] xx

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but he knows I don't have a life! or a babysitter lol... so I can't really say I'm busy both nights although that would be funny actually.

He doesn't really have much of a life either

it sounds like HE got nothing to do tonight so he had texted you a few weeks later....

Nah if hes interested he be on your door now! - iykwim!!

who is gadocd??

I was just looking at going away for the weekend with dd to take my mind of it.. maybe i should just do that lol

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its up to you but play it cool

I don't know, we've seen each other the last few weekends and a couple of evenings during the weeks in between so not like he's been absent so to speak.

I'd still give him a swerve.

Will carry on looking around the hotel sites and see if I can find something cheap enough

I have OCD and GAD I am MellowMa but apparently NOT atm!!!!!

If it matters.

Yeah, it sounds like he can't be arsed to text you except when there's nothing better on.

Bollocks to that.

I'd tell him I was having a friend over tonight and tomorrow my folks were babysitting and I made plans with a friend.

End of.

Sorry, been there, bought the tshirt.

what is GAD?

If you want to see why. Go see Cods thread about Jeremy Vile.