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Original poster

Dp has accused me of stealing his Cannabis from his shed!

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:06

And giving it to a girlfriend.
Whilst my head is full of how will i pay £120 gas bill,£130 electric bill,£140 council tax,£100 for 2 new car tyres.

Think our priorities are wrong.
And i havent been in his bloody shed and didnt know he was hiding stuff up in it.

Concerned he is getting paranoid and putting Cannabis as top priority.
Anyone else have a dh/dp with such a habit getting in the way?

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Tortington · 03/07/2007 21:08

yeah - think your dp is a sad no hoper - am i right?

Anniegetyourgun · 03/07/2007 21:11

Custy, you always hit the nail right on the head.

If I found cannabis in my garden I'd set light to the bloody shed. (And be careful not to inhale!)

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:11

It gets in the way of our whole bloody life-maybe very alike to living with an alcoholic

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oliveoil · 03/07/2007 21:11

oh my dh is always breaking me crack pipe

I told him to feck off and get his own, cheeky arse mofo, and get his own gear while he was at it

MEN!

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:11

Annie-that sounds like a fab idea

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KaySamuels · 03/07/2007 21:13

I think you are right to be concerned.

imaginaryfriend · 03/07/2007 21:13

notasheep! hello!!

My dp's a bit of a dope-head too. Drives me up the wall.

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:14

OMG_Hello IMF-the big issue continues and looks like it will for the rest of time while all the boring bills need to be paid!

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collision · 03/07/2007 21:15

Why the hell do you put up with it?

Are you not concerned about the children and the fact it is illegal?

Kick em out!

perpetuaphoenixfire · 03/07/2007 21:15

xp got to stage where he needed it to get through day, then started on worse. i gave him choice of family or drugs, we didnt stand a chance! was absolutely right thing for me and kids

Speccy · 03/07/2007 21:18

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:20

collision and ppfire-thankyou for that,yes i am looking at kicking him out,i cant let the situation continue and i am the down trodden fool in the meantime.
I dont have any friends in my situation so experiences here will stop me making excuses all the time

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imaginaryfriend · 03/07/2007 21:23

How much does he smoke notasheep? Does he have any days without at all?

HelenLoveJoyOfSpringfield · 03/07/2007 21:23

Speccy I think I dated him before you!

His name was Joe and he used to keep a History book on the bedside table beside his rollys and condoms

perpetuaphoenixfire · 03/07/2007 21:23

the paranoia is also very difficult to live with. sounds like he has already started down that road, if he is going to change he is going to have to do it quickly

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:25

Ifriend-yes he does have days without it but its such a number One priority for him.
He isnt making ANY contribution to finances here.My brother made a point in calling me a mug

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oliveoil · 03/07/2007 21:26

is this a serious thread?

I thought you were taking the piss!!!

sort him out, guy is a buffoon

Original poster
notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:27

Yes its very serious Olive

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Anniegetyourgun · 03/07/2007 21:27

Your brother speaks truth. Get rid.

collision · 03/07/2007 21:28

LOL...I thought your reply was strange Olive!!!

Sorry to sound harsh Sheepy but he sounds like an idiot and you could probably do much better on your own.

What is your work situation?

Speccy · 03/07/2007 21:29

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NKF · 03/07/2007 21:30

Do you like being in a relationship where this sort of conversation takes place?

imaginaryfriend · 03/07/2007 21:30

People who smoke dope are convinced that it makes them more interesting ...

lou33 · 03/07/2007 21:31

lol @ cheeky arse mofo

if he is getting paranoid he is using way too much

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notasheep · 03/07/2007 21:32

collision- i need you all to be very harsh with me please.

The thing is i know i can kick him out,its my house which i own( and only in my name)
Work part time and have coped all this time.

Feel i really need a push to take a big deep jump into a new future

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