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Is sending a naked picture cheating?

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Tilly30 · 04/09/2018 23:24

My boyfriend of 4 years sent a picture of his d*ck to another women along with sex talk etc. He denies that it’s cheating and I should be lucky as it could of been worse. Do you think it’s a form of cheating? Or am I going crazy?! Ever since then the trust has completely gone and I can’t seem to trust him. HELP!

OP posts:
Nanny0gg · 15/04/2021 19:44

@Tilly30

My boyfriend of 4 years sent a picture of his d*ck to another women along with sex talk etc. He denies that it’s cheating and I should be lucky as it could of been worse. Do you think it’s a form of cheating? Or am I going crazy?! Ever since then the trust has completely gone and I can’t seem to trust him. HELP!
In answer to your question, yes it is.

He's a pig and you need to leave him

Sandra15 · 15/04/2021 21:24

@Kleptronic

Look at it this way, if he'd posted a picture of his dick in her letterbox, what would you think?
Not as weird as it seems. I remember being off sick once and I watched The Jeremy Kyle Show. There was a bloke on there accusing his wife of "cheating through the letterbox". The mind boggles.
GettingItOutThere · 15/04/2021 21:47

@Tilly30

Thank you everyone. Really appreciate the honest advice. Has anyone forgiven an ex for cheating and how is your relationship now?
why would you?!

you will never trust him and he will cheat on you again

if you dont have kids get out now. today.

ExhaustedFlamingo · 15/04/2021 21:55

It's all really great advice - but this thread is from three years ago.

I'd have hoped the OP has sorted this out by now 😅😅😅

Blueberrymuffin40 · 15/04/2021 22:04

Why would you want to get trust back he doesn't think its cheating.... He'll keep doing it and his defense 'its not cheating' You on the other hand are in for a lifetime of torture if you stay. It is cheating. Leave.

ExhaustedFlamingo · 15/04/2021 22:08

If anyone ever wanted proof that people don't RTFT, this is it.

As said above and on the previous page:

ZOMBIE.

THREAD.

It's from 2018.

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