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Strippers

108 replies

Roroba · 02/09/2018 03:57

Ok so tonight my Husband,myself and a group of our best friends enjoyed one of the best nights out I've had in ages. We went to a few bars and as usual ended up at a local lap dancing club. We often finish the night there for the simple reason it's open late plus my sister works behind the bar. Anyway I'll get to the point.until tonight, I had no reason to question my presence there., Or justify my life to anyone, I'm blessed with a good life,I'm a happy person ,my husband and I have been happily married for 12 years And I trust him with my life.
Somehow a discussion started about a woman who had recently left her husband because he had gone on a stag party to Prague and had visited a strip club when she had strictly told him he was not allowed to do!

I'm genuinely interested to hear different views about this,it upsets me to think there are women being made to feel so disgusting and worthless by their OH that a marriage is ruined needlessly.
Sorry if I'm rambling and I hope I haven't caused anyone offence .

OP posts:
User1011 · 04/09/2018 03:02

I’m male.

I went to one when I was young, felt uncomfortable, didn’t pay for anything and wouldn’t go again. Horrible place!

I have no problem with them though.

Skarossinkplungerridesagain · 04/09/2018 05:58

BenjaminButtonsChild To be honest I never gave it a thought. It's not up to me to police men's behaviour. They were customers and it was a job.

Anyfucker I was also working as a commercial dancer at the time and I like many other dancers when my knees got too old!

Snitzelvoncrumb · 04/09/2018 06:06

You can't forbid someone from doing something. He is probably better off.

Benjaminbuttonschild · 04/09/2018 06:46

Who was that in response to @Snitzelvoncrumb?

Ah I see skaros. I asked as I don't think I'd enjoy being ogled by a married bloke.

AnyFucker · 04/09/2018 06:57

To all women, probably Benjamin

Know your place and all that

Benjaminbuttonschild · 04/09/2018 07:07

Ah I see. No you can't forbid someone from doing something. You can respect their views though and not ogle naked women.

Menz rights tho innit.

Skarossinkplungerridesagain · 04/09/2018 07:20

What I enjoyed was the hours, the money and going to work with a group of friends.

As I've said I completely people who have an issue with it and set those boundaries within their relationships.

Skarossinkplungerridesagain · 04/09/2018 07:25

Sorry that was meant to say I completely understand

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